No more Mr. Nice guy

[ljnash]

I'm also glad you are going to keep Tyson! He will be better off with you!

I wish you good luck, too! Things will work out for you, I just know it!

Lenore

 

[judy cox]

Oh boy you just made my day! Believe me my next post was
going to start begging you to keep him. Listen, you and Tyson
just get off on your own and he will help you to heal. There are
a lot of women out there who would love to have someone like
you. When you meet someone please don't shower them with
gifts and everything they want. A real relationship is a two way
street and when you see that you will be able to meet someone
who really cares about you not just takes what they can get and
moves on. This girl sounds like a real treat. Without even knowing
you I can easily say you deserve much better. There are a lot
of books out there that would do you good to read. One that
comes to mind is Co-dependent No More, I can't think of the
authors name but its quite a popular book. I think it won't take
long for you to meet someone new especially with a cutie like
Tyson. I do believe after you are settled Tyson will know that
you saved him and he is the one you can learn about unconditional love from.
Take Care and keep us posted in your new journey.

Max & Judy

 

[diego's heart]

Hallelujah!!!!

Originally posted by hammerdown
I am taking Tyson, I do not care how they feel about it anymore. I am not the one that brought this on. .. so I should not have to suffer anymore than I already have. . .

BRAVO!!!!! - you've made the correct decision for *both* of you!!

Her sense of humor is just like my ex-boyfriend which I don't find funny either :o!

 

[bustermom]

Just to add my $.02...

First, kudos to you for taking Tyson. He would have been just another victim if you didn't step up and protect him as well as yourself. People that are unable to take care of themselves can't be expected to provide any degree of decent care for a pet.

Second, I will bet you dollars to doughnuts that this girl contacts you in a few weeks/months swearing up and down that she's changed. Don't believe it. My ex was much the same way and frankly people don't change that fast or that much. If they do, it's a forced change and they'll just revert back over time.

Best of luck - you'll be just fine!!! I believe you've done all the right things and I hope that in time you'll be rewarded with a TRULY loving relationship.

 

[SC's Mom]

Oh I am so excited for you! My next step was to beg and plead with you some more. You and Tyson will be so much better off without this woman in your lives. Trust me...there are so many people out there that are better suited for you both. Let her move and I agree bustermom, she will be back in touch with you but don't take her back! She sounds like a lewd user who only wants to have a good time without the responsibilities that go along with it. If you keep with this woman you will lose your money, your pride and most of all your self worth. Trust me, it will be easy to make more money but a very long and difficult road to get the pride and self worth back. I'm keeping with this post.

 

[DragonflyBoxers]

Thank goodness!!!

I'm so glad that you decided that you needed to take your bud with you.

For what it's worth - your time will come. There IS someone out there waiting for you and your boxer companion. Everything happens for a reason. My 26 year old daughter once said to me that any easy choice she ever made came back to her so she had to make the choice again. The hard choices never reappeared. I thought that was pretty profound coming from such a young woman.

Good luck to you and your boy.

 

[Cindy Creel]

I am so delighted to hear that you are keeping Tyson. The little girl can come see him at any time. The mom was not concerned about how the little girl will miss the dog. I get the feeling that she only worries about herself. I am alot older than you, so please listen like I were your mom. Please run from this girl as fast as you can. My beautiful daughter is in a terrible relationship. Her BF sounds like your girlfriend. I know the split is so difficult. In the long run you have to think of your future. If she is still partying at her age that should be sign one. Sounds like she has a problem accepting responsibility. As long as you take the abuse, she will keep dishing it out. Surprise her and do not wait for her to leave. Throw her out. Call her mom to come get her. This will shock the H--- out of her. I told my daughter the same thing I am telling you. He treats her the way you said your girlfriend treats you. You have to take charge of your sanity and get rid of her. Do not let her sweet talk her way back. My daughter broke up with him and was on the path to recover when he kept begging her back. She fell for it . She is living with him and his family, and she is not allowed to see or talk to us because of his abuse. He is 27 still living at home with 2 college degrees and a fabulous job. Something is wrong. I wish my daughter could meet you. You sound like a nice person. When it is the right person, you do not have to work as hard as you are on the relationship. It just happens and you will know when it is right. This sounds like you are giving and she is doing all of the taking. Take this time to get away. She does not sound like mother material, and certainly not wife material. Please do not let her try to take the dog. She will try to use him as a tool to get to you. You bought him so he is legally yours. I would give anything for my daughter back. Please run, run, run, as fast as you can. She sounds bipolar like my daughters BF. Sweet one moment and crazy the next. You and Tyson can live a happy life. Don't you know that he will be your chick magnet. You may find the girl of your dreams walking your dog. I know that you think I am probably an old woman and crazy for telling you all this. I have been where you are. Got out of a bad relationship, while in therapy found my husband. We met on a blind date, engaged in 4 weeks, married in 7 months. I really do know first hand what I am talking about. I hope you kick her out, you deserve to be treated better. I wish you could meet my knock out daughter. She is a dancer. Great legs. Graduated from LSU. Maybe she will get tired of the way she is treated and do something about it. You can do something. Please do the right thing.

I will pray for you,
Cindy

 

[ariane]

Originally posted by hammerdown
I can not make her love me or be in love with me. I am not going to continue living in the house without any love or affection.

good for you. it can be a very hard decision to make but everyone deserves love and respect in their lives. you shouldn't have to buy her love and time. you're worth better.

 

[hammerdown]

Originally posted by ariane
good for you. it can be a very hard decision to make but everyone deserves love and respect in their lives. you shouldn't have to buy her love and time. you're worth better.

Thank you all once again. It just really sucks being in this house without her or her daughter. I miss them so very much, I hope that this feeling goes away soon. :(
Again Thank you to everyone for letting me vent.

 

[Scorpio]

I know its hard, been through a similar situation, just keep busy with Tyson, walks etc, keeping busy really helps. Then time will do the rest. This was just not meant to be and you will find someone else.

Colleen