No more Mr. Nice guy

[cashisking]

Originally posted by Mac67
That mean you ride too, Cash? Nice roads you got out there in the Vegas area.

Heck yeah I ride!! I have a pic of "Betty" in the gallery! The nice roads are out of town for sure! Las Vegas Bike Week starts tomorrow, that is the only time I even think of riding the strip..

Hey shiny side up everyone!!! And Hammerdown, if you do ride, I agree zen is the word for a long ride on your motorbike, clears out the ol noggin, and puts things into perspective!!

Jenn

 

[hammerdown]

Originally posted by cashisking

Hey shiny side up everyone!!! And Hammerdown, if you do ride, I agree zen is the word for a long ride on your motorbike, clears out the ol noggin, and puts things into perspective!!

Jenn

I would love to go out riding right now, but my bike was stolen on the 29th of August. So as you can see, her and I splitting up could not have happened at a worst time. I hope that my luck changes soon. I can not take any more.

 

[DixieDiana]

Wow, is she nuts or what??
You sound like a dream come true for most women.
And I am so impressed with the fact that you care enough for this woman's daughter, that you don't want her to be without the dog she loves.
As bad as it hurts right now, I know that you could do a lot better. It sounds to me that this woman is nothing more than a user!!
I wish you the best of luck and hopefully, a happier life soon!!

 

[hammerdown]

Originally posted by DixieDiana
Wow, is she nuts or what??
You sound like a dream come true for most women.
And I am so impressed with the fact that you care enough for this woman's daughter, that you don't want her to be without the dog she loves.
As bad as it hurts right now, I know that you could do a lot better. It sounds to me that this woman is nothing more than a user!!
I wish you the best of luck and hopefully, a happier life soon!!

That's actually quite funny because she said the same thing to me. She knows that most women dream for someone to treat her the way that I treated her. She just wants excitement in her life, and doing the whole loving family thing is not for her. Sitting at home is not for her. In her defense however, she has made a point. No matter what I do or what I give could make her fall in love with me again. She has to want it for herself, and I can not blame her. .

 

[Rowdy Boys]

Originally posted by hammerdown
She just wants excitement in her life, and doing the whole loving family thing is not for her. Sitting at home is not for her. In her defense however, she has made a point. No matter what I do or what I give could make her fall in love with me again. She has to want it for herself, and I can not blame her. .

Um, excuse me, she doesn't want the "loving family thing" - doesn't she have a daughter? What does she think her child is? An accessory? Someone to go "party" with.

There is nothing wrong with having a good time now and then, but ultimately, the child comes first. I hope her child never hears her say that.

I have to say, even though she sounds like a selfish, heartless b***h, at least she's honest - although blunt and a bit rude. She could lie about her feelings for you and take advantage of your kind, generous heart.

I know it's hard to remove yourself from someone you love and it hurts. You will be ok.

As far as your concern about finding another boxer that is as loving as Tyte, don't you worry - ALL boxers are that way. You'll be surprised.

 

[hammerdown]

Originally posted by Rowdy Boys
Um, excuse me, she doesn't want the "loving family thing" - doesn't she have a daughter? What does she think her child is? An accessory? Someone to go "party" with.

There is nothing wrong with having a good time now and then, but ultimately, the child comes first. I hope her child never hears her say that.

I have to say, even though she sounds like a selfish, heartless b***h, at least she's honest - although blunt and a bit rude. She could lie about her feelings for you and take advantage of your kind, generous heart.

I know it's hard to remove yourself from someone you love and it hurts. You will be ok.

As far as your concern about finding another boxer that is as loving as Tyte, don't you worry - ALL boxers are that way. You'll be surprised.

She has said many times that she is not the motherly type. She is the type of individual that wants to travel the world, go everywhere and do everything. Her motto is "Life is too short to not have fun". I agree to some extent, but that has to be a limit especially with a child involved. . . As for Tyson, she will not even buy him his food anytime that he runs out of food, I have to be the one to go out to buy it. . . It was not enough that I paid 1000 to get him from an AKC registered breeder, I have also had to pay for all of his Doctor's visits. .. She took him once and told me that she was never going to do it again. Apparently she had too difficult a time controlling him when he saw the other dogs. .
That is just not fair to me or Tyty.

 

[Vela]

If she cannot or will not take care of him you need to take him with you if you leave. You cannot leave him there to be abandoned and not taken care of because she's too busy having fun. I commend you greatly on caring for the child and wanting to leave him there for her but he is the one who will suffer and he has no choices. You have to make those for him even if it's very hard. She has contorl over the child but you can and need to take control for Ty. PLease please don't leave him there. It will hurt the child's feelings but I really think Ty will be the worse for it if yu leave him there where nobody cares or rather the only one who does is 9 and can't do anything for him. I know this whole thing is hard and it will make it worse for the little girl but don't make it worse for Ty too=( I wish there was anything helpful to say but you know in your heart what you need to do and please take Ty with you if you go. It's a horrible situation and I feel for you but you need to do what's right for you and Ty. At least she was honest enough to stop taking advantage of you and you can find a better life. Good luck to you, there are people who do value your many qualities out there.

 

[Baileysmom]

Originally posted by hammerdown
. . . As for Tyson, she will not even buy him his food anytime that he runs out of food, I have to be the one to go out to buy it. . . It was not enough that I paid 1000 to get him from an AKC registered breeder, I have also had to pay for all of his Doctor's visits. .. She took him once and told me that she was never going to do it again. Apparently she had too difficult a time controlling him when he saw the other dogs. .
That is just not fair to me or Tyty.

I am sooo sorry to hear about you and your girl friend!! But what you just said right here is EXACTLY why you should think of tyson first and take him with you!!!! Please don't leave him for the daughters sake!! It is a gracious thing to think of! But he won't be taken care of!
Sorry again, and things will get better with time!


Tanya

 

[hammerdown]

Originally posted by Baileysmom
I am sooo sorry to hear about you and your girl friend!! But what you just said right here is EXACTLY why you should think of tyson first and take him with you!!!! Please don't leave him for the daughters sake!! It is a gracious thing to think of! But he won't be taken care of!
Sorry again, and things will get better with time!


Tanya

I can not take her "poopsie doodles" from her. I just could not do it to her. I am sure that when she moves back with her mom, things will be a lot different. She may change and start doing those things for him since I may not be around to them for her.

 

[Scrapper's Mom]

I don't think it's fair to sacrifice the well-being of this dog even though you think the daughter will be upset. It sounds like this woman cannot control him, isn't interested in his care or feeding and when she's "traveling the world" where is this poor boy going to be staying? Boxers require LOTS of attention, and they need training and love. If this dog is ignored and untrained, he may become a problem - then your ex may just take him to the pound because he's "too much trouble." She's already admiitted she won't take him to the vet if he needs it. If you don't want the dog yourself, contact your local Boxer Rescue organization and please, do the right thing for this animal. The little girl can find another pet - a hamster, a fish, something that doesn't require as much love and care as one of our furbabies. And there is no way a 9 (I think I remember you said she was 9) year old girl can control an untrained, undisciplined un-neutered Boxer, let alone take him for emergency veterinary care if, God forbid, he should need it. And what if they move to a location where dogs aren't allowed? The list of unanswered questions goes on and on....