Well snice the daughter isn't yours you can't do anything for her just keep an eye on Tyson because if he's not treated well I would take him back. It might be harmful to the girl but if he's not treated well no sense two being injured. I sure do wish you the best of luck and hope you can find someone more deserving of your love and attention. I now it hurts right now but if she doesn't love you it isn't going to suddenly change. It is definately her loss and she's a foolish woman to throw away someone willing to do anythign for her and her daughter. SHe is hurting her daughter greatly but she's probably too selfish to understand that. I want to commend you on caring so much for the little girl's feelings. You might be the only one who actually cares about her at this point. You might consider getting another boxer in the future, any boxer will steal your heart=) Terribly sorry this happened and I sure wish the best for you.
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Thanks a lot, you guys here are a good bunch. Right now she is on a motorcycle message board that I introduced her too. .. laughing it up and enjoying all of the attention that the guys are giving her. Right now, I hate her, I hate her more than words can express. Thank you for letting me vent.
cashisking
Boxer Insane
Man, please say that you financed that bike in your name, and you at least kept that.. Let her thumb a ride from the bikers that are giving her all that attention...
Sorry you found one of the bad apples, there are women out there who deserve you and will treat you in kind, she is not one of them..
Sorry about Tyson, but you are really doing an unselfish thing leaving him for her daughter, sounds like her daughter could really use a friend..
hang in there this too shall pass.
Sorry you found one of the bad apples, there are women out there who deserve you and will treat you in kind, she is not one of them..
Sorry about Tyson, but you are really doing an unselfish thing leaving him for her daughter, sounds like her daughter could really use a friend..
hang in there this too shall pass.
Laura Poplin
Boxer Booster
I'm really sorry for your loss. But.....I'm wondering why men seem to go for the women who treat them crappy? I've been single a long time, except for one bad boy, and it happens too many times.
Now for some unsolicited advice....the next woman you are attracted to, make sure she is likeable before you fall in love. Take the time to really get to know her and find out if she has good character and all the other traits you find attractive.
Get out there and have some fun! Good luck!
Now for some unsolicited advice....the next woman you are attracted to, make sure she is likeable before you fall in love. Take the time to really get to know her and find out if she has good character and all the other traits you find attractive.
Get out there and have some fun! Good luck!
cashisking
Boxer Insane
Originally posted by Mac67
Hey man, if you ride, you don't need a girl, they only slow you down..
Surely you aren't speaking of the girl riding the 1100cc Shadow right next to you????
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VickieL
Boxer Buddy
Ok so where in MA are you????
Motorcycles, boxers, and a homebody, that cooks!! Man I'm in heaven!! lovicon
OK, OK back to the subject, if I were you I would send her packing, yes easier said than done I understand that more than you know but you need to sit down and think about what you want here. Either you can be single for about 3.2 seconds till you find someone that appreciates you (from the sounds of it, it won't be long) or you deal with someone out partying while you sit home with the kids being taken advantage of. I would sit down and talk to her to see if you can work on things and if you don't see any changes you need to leave. Some girls love drama and get bored without it. Weird but it is true in many cases like this you can give her the world and she still won't be happy.
And I would TAKE TYSON, as nice as it would be for her daughter to be with the dog from the sounds of it she doesn't care for anyone but herself, Do you honestly think he would be taken care of the way he should be? You really need to think about that, yes it is a wonderful idea to let the dog stay with the daughter but is it in the best intrest of Tyson???? She is young and yes she has been through a lot but she will get over it and you can always tell her she can call and visit him anytime or have him sleep over once in awhile yes she will be upset but it's either that or a lifetime of possible neglect for your dog. Plus she sounds like the type of girl that would find herself another guy to take care of her very quickly and what happens if he wants her to get rid of the dog, do you think she would tell the man to leave? I doubt it!! Stuff like that happens everyday with pets and you really need to think about these things before you leave him in her care. How will she handle vet bills and medication if he ever needs it and will she take time away fromher busy routine to deal with Tyson? It's just something to think about!! My opinion for what it's worth move on....
Motorcycles, boxers, and a homebody, that cooks!! Man I'm in heaven!! lovicon OK, OK back to the subject, if I were you I would send her packing, yes easier said than done I understand that more than you know but you need to sit down and think about what you want here. Either you can be single for about 3.2 seconds till you find someone that appreciates you (from the sounds of it, it won't be long) or you deal with someone out partying while you sit home with the kids being taken advantage of. I would sit down and talk to her to see if you can work on things and if you don't see any changes you need to leave. Some girls love drama and get bored without it. Weird but it is true in many cases like this you can give her the world and she still won't be happy.
And I would TAKE TYSON, as nice as it would be for her daughter to be with the dog from the sounds of it she doesn't care for anyone but herself, Do you honestly think he would be taken care of the way he should be? You really need to think about that, yes it is a wonderful idea to let the dog stay with the daughter but is it in the best intrest of Tyson???? She is young and yes she has been through a lot but she will get over it and you can always tell her she can call and visit him anytime or have him sleep over once in awhile yes she will be upset but it's either that or a lifetime of possible neglect for your dog. Plus she sounds like the type of girl that would find herself another guy to take care of her very quickly and what happens if he wants her to get rid of the dog, do you think she would tell the man to leave? I doubt it!! Stuff like that happens everyday with pets and you really need to think about these things before you leave him in her care. How will she handle vet bills and medication if he ever needs it and will she take time away fromher busy routine to deal with Tyson? It's just something to think about!! My opinion for what it's worth move on....
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Boxer Pal
No, I made sure that the bike was in her name. I did not want her to feel as if I was trying to control her by putting it in my name. So I bought it for her, I paid for it for her and it is her bike because I know how much she loves it and how much she loves riding.
I can not make her love me or be in love with me. I am not going to continue living in the house without any love or affection. I do too much for her and Chanelle to have that lacking from the relationship. I will stay with a few friends for the next few weeks and hopefully I will find another place to live.
MyGirlHeidi
Completely Boxer Crazy
I wish you all the best. In the end it will be her regretting what a good and decent man she HAD!! There are women all over who would love a man like you. I guess the old saying goes, "Opposites attract." Staying with friends is a good thing it will give you time to think and get over her. I am very sorry for what you are going thru, but you will get over her. Your young and it sounds like you have many good qualities that won't last very long out there on the open market! Keep your head up and always look forward never behind!
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