Lola's mum
Boxer Insane
My 14 year old daughter (Minty) and her boyfriend have split up and I am incredibly sad too is that allowed? :( I know she's only young but he was a much better influence on her than some of her friends to be honest and they got on so well.
They've been together since last September and he was her first love, a really lovely lad.
He did all the running while my daughter was more chilled about him but she loved him all the same, she's just a bit more reserved.
He lived in a nearby village so they didn't really see each other as much as they'd like to have done. At weekends he worked all day but would come over after and stay the night after (obviously not with Minty
) and in the week in the evenings if his parents were going to the gym in town they'd drop him here and pick him up on the way home. That's the reason he called it a day because they didn't see each other enough.
He was crying, she was crying it was all rather sad. When he left (yes he did the decent thing and caught the bus here to tell her) she was sobbing so much that it made me cry to see her so heartbroken, infact it makes me upset now just thinking about it all.
I shall miss him too, he became such a part of our life, coming to family functions etc, he fitted in so well. I never thought in a million years he would be the one to end it I thought it would be her.
I know I've got to go through this many more times as she is still so young but bugger I felt her pain and it's horrible.
They've been together since last September and he was her first love, a really lovely lad.
He did all the running while my daughter was more chilled about him but she loved him all the same, she's just a bit more reserved.
He lived in a nearby village so they didn't really see each other as much as they'd like to have done. At weekends he worked all day but would come over after and stay the night after (obviously not with Minty
) and in the week in the evenings if his parents were going to the gym in town they'd drop him here and pick him up on the way home. That's the reason he called it a day because they didn't see each other enough.He was crying, she was crying it was all rather sad. When he left (yes he did the decent thing and caught the bus here to tell her) she was sobbing so much that it made me cry to see her so heartbroken, infact it makes me upset now just thinking about it all.
I shall miss him too, he became such a part of our life, coming to family functions etc, he fitted in so well. I never thought in a million years he would be the one to end it I thought it would be her.
I know I've got to go through this many more times as she is still so young but bugger I felt her pain and it's horrible.
My 20yr old (likes the long-term relationships) is currently involved in his 2nd serious relationship. When his 1st one ended after 3yrs (she cheated on him), myself and my 2 other kids were missing her just as much because she became part of our family...we were "use" to her. If and when anything should happen with this current relationship (1yr + ), I'm sure we will feel the same way again. And also, like a mother lion, I'd like to shred any girl who dares to break my sons hearts..BUT, I'm human and we can't do that, so instead we have to be supportive and encourage our kids that there is a silver lining and that life does go on, and 99% of the time, to something better. My 16yr old is a "ladies-man" and is upfront with any girl that he is not the committed type. He enjoys a girls company for a movie or a dance and ALWAYS gives a rose on a date, but that's as far as it goes. He has many female friends who are just that...friends. He believes friendships are ruined because of relationships and "besides...when I agree to date one girl, another one comes along that I like better and girls just don't understand that"!! 
