Unbelievable...I can't belive this!
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jo.mcqueen
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god thats just terrible.......... could Ann maybe have known Bob before he started working there????????? weird!!!! good luck with the meeting i hope Ann's eyes get opened and she see's everyone in the room for who they are!!!! let us know how it goes!
BoxerDudz811
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Hey everyone! Thank you all so much for the kind words and advice! I decided not to even waste my time on this meeting or these people! The meeting was supposed to be at 6 O'clock. I just talked to the BF who is cooking at the bar tonight and he explained me that basically they were having thier own little meeting when he got there and I will be doing myself no good. Ann is totally wrapped around this guys finger, Jane is being a total pushover, and there's just no point. I thought that I needed to clear my name but I don't...these people don't even deserve the energy it would take me to hold up my middle finger.
Basically, Ann (before even having the meeting, and I'm sure with a little swindling from Bob) decided that Jane and Bob will be the only bartenders....2 bartenders...thats it! What if someone gets sick and the other can't work!? Bob is being a total ass to Jane. She really needs this job so I kinda understand...but she is staying! Ann made it so Jane and Bob will never have to see each other! They both work seperate days and Ann promised they will never have to speak a word...ever. But, from what Kevin (bf) said Bob was saying some pretty mean things to Jane.
Okay...here's where it gets really good! We were all supposed to have a meeting so I could clear my name with Ann and give Bob a little piece of my mind (at least that was my reason)...and Ann sent bob home at like 5:30....BEFORE I WAS EVEN SPOST TO BE THERE! I was just going to have to sit down and explain myself to Ann...and for what!? She already made it clear I was no longer working there...I don't owe her anything...and I don't even get to confront this jerk! Okay now listen to this one...Starting the first of the year Bob is going to leasing the kitchen of the bar from Ann...thats half of the business so basically he will be running/owning half of the bar...shes known him for two weeks!!!!! He's worked 2 days!!!
I DO NOT want to work for this woman...I want nothing to do with this bar...I do not want Bob as my manager so I'm done...I'm just not showing up for the meeting. Kevin is also probably, as I type, in the middle of giving Ann a piece of his mind and walking out! He is the only cook and he goes every morning and cleans the place so she is going to be lost!! Kevin said that he will absoluty not work with this guy and there is no way in hell this guy will be his manager. Both of us feel that she deserves this...I usually would never ever ever feel good about my boyfriend walking out and putting someone is this situation but to be brutally honest this is the best I've felt in days! She screwed me and a whole lot of other people BIG time so I guess she will now see how it feels.
As to peoples question whether or not they may be dating...I totally doubt it, she is 62 and has a BF shes been with for about 10 years...at the oldest I would say hes in his late thirties. And about her knowing him before...I guess its possible but I would highly doubt that too...not that I'll ever find out!
Hey everyone! Thank you all so much for the kind words and advice! I decided not to even waste my time on this meeting or these people! The meeting was supposed to be at 6 O'clock. I just talked to the BF who is cooking at the bar tonight and he explained me that basically they were having thier own little meeting when he got there and I will be doing myself no good. Ann is totally wrapped around this guys finger, Jane is being a total pushover, and there's just no point. I thought that I needed to clear my name but I don't...these people don't even deserve the energy it would take me to hold up my middle finger.
Basically, Ann (before even having the meeting, and I'm sure with a little swindling from Bob) decided that Jane and Bob will be the only bartenders....2 bartenders...thats it! What if someone gets sick and the other can't work!? Bob is being a total ass to Jane. She really needs this job so I kinda understand...but she is staying! Ann made it so Jane and Bob will never have to see each other! They both work seperate days and Ann promised they will never have to speak a word...ever. But, from what Kevin (bf) said Bob was saying some pretty mean things to Jane.
Okay...here's where it gets really good! We were all supposed to have a meeting so I could clear my name with Ann and give Bob a little piece of my mind (at least that was my reason)...and Ann sent bob home at like 5:30....BEFORE I WAS EVEN SPOST TO BE THERE! I was just going to have to sit down and explain myself to Ann...and for what!? She already made it clear I was no longer working there...I don't owe her anything...and I don't even get to confront this jerk! Okay now listen to this one...Starting the first of the year Bob is going to leasing the kitchen of the bar from Ann...thats half of the business so basically he will be running/owning half of the bar...shes known him for two weeks!!!!! He's worked 2 days!!!
I DO NOT want to work for this woman...I want nothing to do with this bar...I do not want Bob as my manager so I'm done...I'm just not showing up for the meeting. Kevin is also probably, as I type, in the middle of giving Ann a piece of his mind and walking out! He is the only cook and he goes every morning and cleans the place so she is going to be lost!! Kevin said that he will absoluty not work with this guy and there is no way in hell this guy will be his manager. Both of us feel that she deserves this...I usually would never ever ever feel good about my boyfriend walking out and putting someone is this situation but to be brutally honest this is the best I've felt in days! She screwed me and a whole lot of other people BIG time so I guess she will now see how it feels.
As to peoples question whether or not they may be dating...I totally doubt it, she is 62 and has a BF shes been with for about 10 years...at the oldest I would say hes in his late thirties. And about her knowing him before...I guess its possible but I would highly doubt that too...not that I'll ever find out!
BoxerDudz811
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Well, last night about 10 I got a call from Ann, I saw it was her on the ID so I didn't answer it, when I listened to her message she says "I honey it's Ann I feel really bad and hope that you will call me back when you get this!" Ha! I think that she thinks apoligizing to me will get Kevin back....she thinks he quit cause of me! He quit cause he will have nothing to do with Bob...Ah!
Well, last night about 10 I got a call from Ann, I saw it was her on the ID so I didn't answer it, when I listened to her message she says "I honey it's Ann I feel really bad and hope that you will call me back when you get this!" Ha! I think that she thinks apoligizing to me will get Kevin back....she thinks he quit cause of me! He quit cause he will have nothing to do with Bob...Ah!
TYS0NSM0MMA
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I Understand COMPLETELY!!
something very similar happened to me when I was bartending in England. I was working at this pub (a very well known one in Oxford) and I worked opening the kitchen at 9 am every morning except tuesdays (my only day off) then I worked in the kitchen until 2pm when it closes for a few hours, in that time I bartended until 430 when I had to prep the kitchen for dinner which was at 6 so I preped for an hour then got a 1/2 hour break then worked in the kitchen from 6 until 1030 when it closed, cleaned up and went back on bar until the bar closed. LONG DAYS to say the least! In anycase I closed every night with this guy Pete (who was a total pervert, he was dating someone also living with them, tried to come on to me, and I caught him hours later making out with a lesbian! I guess he had a way with women *shrug*) I had been having problems with $$ lately because it costs so much to live there that all my money went into buses to and from work, groceries and rent, I had told my friend at work that money was tight and that I was worried about not having enough for rent and that I may have to go find a food bank. Pete overheard me and not 2 days later I was accused of stealing almost 200 pounds! which is like 460 canadian! My boss was yelling and screaming at me about how she gets mad when she has to use her own money to make up for employees who steal, then she fired me and banned me from the bar! I didnt steal it! We had key cards we needed to use to get into the cash registers and they recorded when they were opened and everything. I never counted the cash, pete always did at the end of the night upstairs in the office where no one could see him. I know he took it and was probably mad because his attempts to seduce me didnt work.. I am also such an honest person that if I am given the wrong change and I discover it on the way home I will turn around and go back to give it back.. I always hope that people are as honest as me, but I guess not.
Take it in stride its hard not to take it personally, but you know, your boyfriend knows and your former manager knows that you are honest. Move on to bigger and better things, you deserve it!
Colly
something very similar happened to me when I was bartending in England. I was working at this pub (a very well known one in Oxford) and I worked opening the kitchen at 9 am every morning except tuesdays (my only day off) then I worked in the kitchen until 2pm when it closes for a few hours, in that time I bartended until 430 when I had to prep the kitchen for dinner which was at 6 so I preped for an hour then got a 1/2 hour break then worked in the kitchen from 6 until 1030 when it closed, cleaned up and went back on bar until the bar closed. LONG DAYS to say the least! In anycase I closed every night with this guy Pete (who was a total pervert, he was dating someone also living with them, tried to come on to me, and I caught him hours later making out with a lesbian! I guess he had a way with women *shrug*) I had been having problems with $$ lately because it costs so much to live there that all my money went into buses to and from work, groceries and rent, I had told my friend at work that money was tight and that I was worried about not having enough for rent and that I may have to go find a food bank. Pete overheard me and not 2 days later I was accused of stealing almost 200 pounds! which is like 460 canadian! My boss was yelling and screaming at me about how she gets mad when she has to use her own money to make up for employees who steal, then she fired me and banned me from the bar! I didnt steal it! We had key cards we needed to use to get into the cash registers and they recorded when they were opened and everything. I never counted the cash, pete always did at the end of the night upstairs in the office where no one could see him. I know he took it and was probably mad because his attempts to seduce me didnt work.. I am also such an honest person that if I am given the wrong change and I discover it on the way home I will turn around and go back to give it back.. I always hope that people are as honest as me, but I guess not.
Take it in stride its hard not to take it personally, but you know, your boyfriend knows and your former manager knows that you are honest. Move on to bigger and better things, you deserve it!
Colly
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