both mine are cropped and docked. Like everyone else said, tails are docked at 2-3 days old, before feeling is developed there. Ears are definately choice.
IMO, i would never want a strong, powerful tail on my dogs, besides injury to themselves, just having friends over w/ dogs w/ tails, stuff gets knocked off tables, drinks spilled and etc.. has made me so relieved that my 2 do not have long tails. Cash and Nikki's ears are cropped because both were to be show dogs. (even though Cassius never made it, i still would have done it) I love the look of a cropped boxer, but i can also appreciate a boxer w/ beautiful, nice laying natural ears. Again, it is personal choice. my 2 never took longer than a day to recoup from earcrops, and endure the constant posting and re-posting w/out a problem. I dont believe the process is as "inhumane" as people who have never experienced a good earcrop, think. Most vets do not crop because it takes a lot of expertise, practice and artistic skill to be good at earcropping. Im sure you have all seen HORRIBLE crops.. which is why these "great" vets are few and far between. (and why so many people will travel far and wide to use their expertise.)
-Kat