Let me tell you something. We have a 7 mos old daughter and just adopted a 1 yr old boxer a few weeks ago. He is absolutely AMAZING with her. And like you, I certainly put my daughter's well being first. And that is exactly why we got a boxer. Anyone who would tell you to be rid of your boxer for the sake of your baby is obviously not doggie educated. I have done extenive research on just about every breed known to man, and have always come back to one breed, the boxer. And every boxer owner who has children will tell you the same thing. Yes, they look intimidating, which is why I am sure people on walks may be saying these things, but i can assure you that they are THE greatest with children. I grew up with golden retrievers, and as wonderful as they are, I would still rather have a boxer with my baby any day.
Our Duke just can't get enough of our baby. He is so gentle with her, gives her soft kisses all the time, and follows her around everywhere. In fact, when she starts to cry, ever, he has to go right to her to make sure everything is o.k. And when she is crying while I am changing her diaper, Duke paces around until I get her off the changing table so he can see that she is o.k. When we are on walks, he stays RIGHT next to her stroller, and checks in every few minutes by sticking his head inside and giving her a kiss.
He lets her do whatever she wants to him. She crawls all over him, plays with his ears, slides all over him, grabs his mouth, paws, legs; whatever she can get. Not only does he not mind, but he doesn't even move to get away. He'll just lift his head up and kiss her while she has her arms around his neck, or whatever it is of his she's playing with. In fact, and this is actually gross, but the other day I was dusting and only had my eyes off of them for one second. But during that second, my daughter had mischief on her mind. I glanced over to see my daughter squeezing his testacles. I ran over immediately to get her away and loosen her kung-foo grip on them. I couldn't believe that Duke didn't even budge. He just looked at me like he couldn't understand why I was freaking out. Once I freed his parts from her hand, he just leaned over and kissed my girl and laid back down. (I obviously cleaned her hands right away, eeww).
I have truly never met any other type of dog that is more tolerant and loving with children. You will see for yourself.
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