I just caught and read this entire thread, while shedding tears.. I am so relieved Ms Josi has you and Brian in her life... you both really truely love her, and that must be what she is fighting for... I wish you the best with Josi and coming up to the difficulty of say bye for your wedding and putting on a happy face like you said for your guests for the 4 days following.. you are all in my prayers and thoughts, extra XO's to Josi ... sweetie, get better ..!!
try and enjoy your wedding, she wouldn't want her condition to weigh down on your time, your special moment... take care...