No more Mr. Nice guy

[hammerdown]

I will never understand women. I have been with the woman that I love very much for 2 years now, and she just told me recently that she is no longer in love with me. :confused: . I have done everything in my power to show her that not all men are lying, cheating bastards. I have given her everything that I could possibly give and now this. She and her daughther wanted a boxer, poof, brand new fawn boxer for the both of them. She wanted a new motorcycle, poof, you have yourself a brand new 2003 motorcycle. What ever she or her daughther wanted, they received. I cook for them, I do their laundry, I help her with any problem that pops up.

We are both almost 30 and I am at a point where I am tire of dating and seeing one woman after another. She feels as if that we are too different, primarily because she likes to party and I am more a home body family man. She hates it when I tell her that should tone things down a bit, when she is being too wild. .. or drinking too much. .. I don't know what to do anymore. . . I am almost completely fed up with women. .. what should I do. . not to mention that we live together. ..

 

[ljnash]

It sounds to me like she is immature, and doesn't know a good man when she has one!

Some women go for the *bad boy* types, but there are still a lot of women out there who would be happy with a generous, loving man who is a family man. Hang in there with us women. You will find someone who will love you and share your values.

Lenore

 

[Austin's Mom]

You sound like a great guy to me. She sure doesn't appreciate what she has. Maybe you give her too much? I hope it works out for you, but if not I know there is someone out there that will love you and appreciate all you have to offer.

Chris

 

[Mac67]

I don't mean to be cruel, but maybe she found herself another sugar daddy who can buy her more expensive toys. Alot of women around where I'm from are only looking for a man who can provide stuff for them. They're only into the guys with flashy cars and expensive clothes, who are usually jerks and treat them like property. Perhaps I'm a bit bitter, oh well.
Hopefully thats not your situation. If it is, you're better off with out her.

 

[Barb_IA]

Wow! You sound like a great guy to me too! There are women out there that would appreciate having a guy like you. I have to wonder....like Chris...maybe your giving her too much.
Start taking the new boxer out for walks.....I've heard some men say what a chick magnent they are. :D
By the way what is your boxers name?
Welcome to Boxerworld!

Barb and furbaby Lacey

 

[Scrapper's Mom]

Gosh, you sound like a great person - will your significant other consider couseling with you? Partying all time and drinking etc. is kind of a sign of immaturity. You would expect more, especially from a 30 year old woman, with a daughter. What kind of example is that - but you probably already realize that. I thnk she might be taking you for granted and not appreciating all that she has and all that you do for her. I don't know what the answer is - you can't make people feel the way you want them to feel... but not all women are like that, believe me. When I was single, I would have jumped at the opportunity to be with a guy with your qualities. In fact, you sound alot like my hubby. Best wishes to you!

 

[Scorpio]

Well, even though you love her it has to work both ways. She has probably been enjoying having you around, her daughter too but you can't buy love, its something that makes two people become one. You sound like a wonderful loving person and you need someone who will return that to you. So my advice would be to excuse the expression but "dump her" and move on, there is someone out there thats waiting for you. Sorry.

colleen

 

[hammerdown]

Originally posted by Mac67
I don't mean to be cruel, but maybe she found herself another sugar daddy who can buy her more expensive toys. Alot of women around where I'm from are only looking for a man who can provide stuff for them. They're only into the guys with flashy cars and expensive clothes, who are usually jerks and treat them like property. Perhaps I'm a bit bitter, oh well.
Hopefully thats not your situation. If it is, you're better off with out her.

Thank you, his name is Tyson, and he will be a year old tomorrow ,.

I am trying to not lose my sanity right now, but I love her so very much. I really want the best for her and her daughter. Right now as it stands, I may never see our boxer again. I really don't know if I could find another boxer as loving as Tyson. I am losing my sanity right now.

 

[Vela]

But take the boxer with you!!!!! Would hate to see it left home alone while she's out partying all of the time. YOu sound like a caring nice man who just needs someone to care as much about you as you do about them. "Things" aren't what someone should be interested in. THey should love you for woh you are. If she has told you that she dosn't love you anymore then I would move on, with any items you are currently paying for and find yourself a different place to live. I sure wish you the best and don't give up on all women, there are some good women still out there=)

 

[hammerdown]

Originally posted by hammerdown
Thank you, his name is Tyson, and he will be a year old tomorrow ,.

I am trying to not lose my sanity right now, but I love her so very much. I really want the best for her and her daughter. Right now as it stands, I may never see our boxer again. I really don't know if I could find another boxer as loving as Tyson. I am losing my sanity right now.

I would love to take Tyty with me, but there is a huge problem, HER DAUGHTER LOVES HIM VERY MUCH. She is 9 years old and has already been through the ringer. Her dad used to abuse her. I could never ever ever take Tyson away from her. She would be devastated completely. I will suck it up and have to be without him.

I just hope that she finds another man like her ex husband to cheat on her, steal her money and not give a damn about her and her feelings. Or maybe someone like her daughter's father, who hit her and also cheated. Some women just seem to enjoy chaos.