mustangbilly,
I just happened upon this thread, and it makes me so sad for you and your family. It's easy to make mistakes, we all do it. I'm sure your wife feels really awful, and quite responsible for this, I'm sorry for her too.
I hope that whoever has Turbo (and I suspect someone does have him) is keeping him warm and safe, and that they will have a change of heart and bring him home to his family.
Please keep us posted.