I let Roxy sleep in the bed with me. The main reason (or reason I justify it to myself) is with having fosters coming in and out, I only allow Rox on the bed. This lets her know that she is still special. It's our little thing. But, she slept in the bed with me before I started fostering, but now it means more to me. When Ruckus is around, he prefers to sleep on the floor, right beside the bed. But, Roxy is my little snuggle bug and so cute because she has to lay her head on a pillow, too. It's so sweet.