I cut Alex's nails about once a month through the winter. Luckily, I can see by the divets in the carpet when it's time to cut them. I cut them when she is napping/sleeping and she watches me through one eye. If I go at her with the cutters when she isn't relaxed, she puts up a little fight. She doesn't need them done as often in the summer as she is outside more. If you're nervous, just cut a little bit off and see how that goes. Play with the paw area even when you aren't cutting to get them used to your hands on that area. Alex is older now (over 10 years) so she is pretty much used to it. I remember when she was really young, she would always try and pull her paw away just before I was ready to snip!!!!!