Again thank you all. Yesterday had been my roughest day yet, and the they called to tell me I could pick up his ashes. I have been so busy with my house I really haven't had time to really break down yet. I feel it on the edges and know it is going to come. My mom flies in tomorrow (part of the reason I have been so busy) and it will probably after she comes in.
In the mean time Arabella is adjusting well and has been left alone for a 3-4 hours a couple of times and has done well. Nothing torn up or out of place. So proud of my girl! I plan to make a video once things settle back down and I can figure out what I am doing. When I finish I will post on the Rainbow bridge forum.