My 7 Yrs old has cancer

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Gin&Dex

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"medicine"

Hey Donna, I read somewhere in another post, that you were a volunteer EMT. I wanted to post right away, but something came up and I didn't. Guess where I work?? I work for an ambulance service! :) I'm not an EMT (and don't plan to become one)... I do the payroll (for about 100 people), maintain all the computers and the network, do the accounts receivable, and some billing. Small world, huh?? ;)

I really have to say I admire (you) and all of our EMTs and Paramedics. They go through SO much everyday, and really give their hearts to help people. I've seen them after they come back from a run, just crying their hearts out (mostly runs with children).... and then they go on another run. It's a very noble job to have. (My heart couldn't handle that job, that's why I work in the office! I don't think I'd last a day on the street!) God bless you!

But yes, helping others is sometimes the best medicine for yourself. When Ginger was diagnosed with her cancer, I searched and searched this board for someone that had a similar experience--I didn't find any bone cancer folks out there (lots of lymphoma and heart problems though). They all gave me great support and love, but I couldn't find anyone that said "my dog did that too". So I don't mean this in a bad way (I wish you never had to deal with bone cancer), but it's really nice for me to be able to help you (and Glory) through this. Bone cancer (of any kind) is different in a way. And Glory, I know how it feels to go through several biopsys and not get a confirmed diagnosis... (Ginger was diagnosed at my vets office after her 2nd biopsy, with a slide under his microscope, identifying only 2 cells of hundreds on the slide.)

Ladies, we are a geat group. We are strong, and have beautiful loving hearts, and terrific babies (some of them are already angels)!! The angels are watching over all of us and sending their love!!!

Ok, now I'm going to cry!!! ;) HUGS to everyone!!!
 

Donna1969

Boxer Insane
well Thank you

Yes, its a hard job to do..especially when I don't get paid..:LOL: I hate Peds runs!! I am the snivling idiot you see crying after a bad run. Yup thats me, I admit it. And right back out I/we go for another call. I have cut way way back on my time I do, lots of things going on..13 yr old dtr has lots of activities, my 4 yr old is running me ragged, Blizzy's illness, problems in the family (my sister & her kids) and my "real" job I do is full time, leaving little time to do the EMT thing. Honestly, I really don't miss it much. I burned myself out..too many calls, too many runs, too many hours. But I plan on putting in more time there soon.

Thanks again, you really know how to make a girl smile..and blush. You are always complementing me..I appreciate your confidence in me :D
 

Gin&Dex

Super Boxer
EMT burnout

Yes, the burnout happens fast... I've seen it. We have BIG turnover at work with our medics. And I understand it! Like I said, I couldn't last one whole day.

We all have to live our lives and do what is best for us... I like my job, thankfully, I'm on the 'easier' end of it (except payroll--they either love me or hate me!). But we all cry (the girls in the office) when one of our "frequent flyers" {affectionately} passes. Even though WE don't see them and interact with them, it hurts when they go, because we know what they have dealt with. It is a very tuff job. I know you know what I mean.

I don't mean to get off track with this thread..... I just wanted you to know that "I feel ya, sista!"... in other ways. As hard as it is, death really is a part of life. And I'm glad we have this place to come to, to talk with our friends.

Hugs to all!
 

Rocky's-Mom

Super Boxer
Just a short note before retiring for the night...my baby is laying here on his bed as i type waiting for me to finish up so we can go to bed...he will take his nose and nudge under my elbow to get my attention while I type. No wonder we love boxers so much they are so human and big enough to do those things to keep our attention...he is soooooooooooo spoiled...he was spoiled but...rotten now...in only 2 short weeks. Donna I know today must be hard thinking back to last month. You are all in our prayers....Hugges and kisses from Rocky to all you boxer lovers.....Vicky
 

Gin&Dex

Super Boxer
Welcome to the weekend!

Hey Vicky! I know how you love weekends with your Rocky, so welcome to the weekend! :) I hope you guys have a GREAT one and enjoy every second of it!

How was Rocky's day today?? How are you doing?? And how is your husband doing?? Is he holding up ok??

Let us know, we're thinking about you guys, hoping all is well!

HUGS!
 

Rocky's-Mom

Super Boxer
Thanks Melanie

I must be accepting some part of all of this since this is my first post today. I was scheduled to work tomorrow and one of the girls knew how I want to spend my weekend with Rocky and since took my Saturday...everyone else thinks I have lost my mind....who cares what they think...what do they know..they have never been loved by a boxer....it's their loss. Rocky appears to be fine. He had a good night just jumped down once went outside and barked and was ready to go back to bed. he lay right up against me and I just layed their smelling that boxer scent. I dreamed all night but I bet I sleep tonight. Hubby doesn't want to talk about it...still in denial. But he doesn't have all of you wonderful people like me...I told him about all of you but it's not the same. You have a wonderful weekend yourself and take care....God Bless all....Rocky, Mom and Tobey too
 

Gin&Dex

Super Boxer
Hey Vicky!

I'm so glad you don't have to work tomorrow! That was nice of that girl to take your saturday! It sounds like you have at least a couple of friends at work that maybe understand. But you are right, most of them don't! I have to admit, I have had dogs most of my life (my family's dogs) and none of them came close (I grew up with a Beagle and a mutt)... sure we loved them VERY much, but there's nothing like a boxer! And yes, who cares what they think!! ;)

Dexter slept basically ON TOP of me last night, which was a little weird for him.. We normally have a lot of bodily contact when we sleep, but it's like he couldn't get enough of me last night. At one point I buried my face into his back and just breathed him in!! Don't they smell great!! :) (And funny to add at this point, I'm allergic to dogs!! lol ! it's a long story and I'll talk about it later, but I am allergic to dogs! HA!)

As for your husband, hopefully he will come around. He is a man, after all, and they tend to keep things bottled up inside. We don't ask about him much, so i wanted to... to see how he was. We care about him too!

But YOU seem to be doing just great! I'm SO GLAD you can spend your weekend with Rocky!! :) I hope you get some great rest tonight and this weekend!! You have our hearts!!

HUGS HUGS HUGS, to you and to Rocky and Tobey and your husband (even if he doesn't seem to want them!). HUGS!!!
 

Shirley Jo

Super Boxer
I keep coming back to see how Rocky is doing. Every time I never get all the way through without tears running down my face. Then I have to go hug Moe and get those sloppy kisses I love so much. He went for his day of bath and buddies as we call it. I missed him so when I got home and he wasn't home yet. You have so much strong will. I feel as though I have to check on you guys as if you were right here and a part of our family. Take care and sending prayers and sloppy kisses your way.
 

Net45582

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Hey Vicky & Rocky! Glad to here things are back on the upswing!....Vicky,is there a soft splint that can be used with Rockys leg to give it support? I notice you keep mentioning the fear of him breaking it...just a thought. Peace of mind means a lot during these times,huh? My girls are doing well also-whew! I've adopted the "living with cancer" attitude instead of the losing to cancer mode I was trapped in. Now...I'm searching for the best dog food(I can afford) for my girls and comparing it to the costs of my home cooking......which both my girls sing and dance for!LOL! Wiggles,waggles,hugs and sloppy kisses to you and Rocky!....give your hubby a hug today too!
Wanda,Kiddo & Chancey
 

Rocky's-Mom

Super Boxer
Good morning to all

We had a nice weekend and here I am again back at work. I just wanted to check in and say hello and hope everything is going good for all my boxer friends....take care...Rocky & Mom
 
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