Believe me, I know how you feel. I made Lexi and appointment twice and cancelled both. My vet finally called me and we talked for a long time and I told her my fears and she was wonderful about the whole process. So, we finally had it done and she was well over a year old at the time. She too stayed over night as a precaution and I paid for the extra pain meds just because I wanted to make sure she was out of it while she was there. She did extremely well and we used the laser surgery so her recovery was alot easier. We have a group called Spay Inc. here and they give a discount for spay and neuters. Lexi's spay was around $100 and that was for everything (including the extra pain pills). It was only $20 to neuter my male cats...what a deal :D But a spay is a major surgery. Good luck and she will come through wonderfully. It is hard to be away from them. My vet requires they stay the night before too just so there is no accidental ingestion of food or water prior to surgery!! Good-luck and we will be thinking good thoughts for you.
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Aimee
Proud mama of ----
Lexi, 3 year old spayed red fawn female, docked tail and natural ears (ball of fire!!)
Baxter, 5 year old rescue fawn male with black mask, docked tail and natural ears (a true sweetie)
Garrett, 15 year old male miracle sheltie rescue (now waiting at the bridge 12-8-00)
Elvis & Sylvester 5 1/2 year old black domestic short haired twins