He's not "going like a female" - he's going like a dog. Not all males lift their legs. You really don't want them to! Leg-lifting is marking behavior, not bladder relief behavior. With it you may also get marking furniture, marking walls, marking at other people's houses, marking other dogs, marking every little bush and every tree and stump and hydrant and clump of grass on walks, and never fully emptying their bladders as their instincts will be to "keep" some pee for marking... who needs all that, just so the human on the other end of the leash can feel masculine during the twenty seconds a dog is peeing? I hope my Guinness never starts leg-lifting and all the unwanted behaviors that often accompany it.