Jealousy among my dogs

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Reggie

Boxer Pal
Maybe someone out there can help me with this.

My family has always had boxers and I now have two of my own. Solar I bought as a puppy and she is the joy of my life and I don't know what I would do without her. She is 20 months old now and, although we still have some obedience issues, she is the lovliest dog.

Griffin I adopted from a shelter 6 months ago. He is also very lovely but obviously not brought up in an ideal environment. He is very jealous about anybody touching his food bowl which both Solar and I can cope with, no problem.

The problem I have is that I cannot pet Griffin AT ALL, while Solar is around. She is not a problem though she always comes up for her share when I have done it. The problem is him. If I'm petting him, and Solar comes near he gets extremely jealous and attacks her, snarling, the whole bit. I can stop it but it all came to head last weekend when I went camping with some friends (and dogs, of course).

Griffin decided that the camp-fire-side was his territory and all the people in it and we had a couple of quite frightening episodes (for the other people with me). I had to eventually put Griffin away so that it couldn't occur.

Is there anyway that I can train this out of him? I don't want to have to leave him behind on camping trips because it was lovely to see the fun he was having racing over the dunes. HELP!
 

Zannie

Completely Boxer Crazy
i seen on good dog you on animal planet this lady could not pet one of her dogs when the other onr was in the same room so what the trainer did was put the jealous one on a leash and have someone hold the leash and pet the other one and ignore
the jealouse when he is good and sits he got petted too,it took awhile but did work................

ann
 

Adelle

Boxer Insane
Its called Resource Guarding, guarding his food, guarding you, his territory etc

There is a booked called "Mine" by Jean Donaldson that may help, or you may want to work with a behaviorist on this.

I would also recommend you search in the training/behavior forums on this site and you will find more information
 

binky

Super Boxer
I just started reading "Mine...A Guide to Resource Guarding" by Jean Donaldson, myself. (You can order it from www.sitstay.com). I'm not yet done with it. It certainly addresses the situations you bring up, and while the book is VERY technical, if you wade thru it you will come up with the basic idea for "counter-conditioning".

Yes, it is possible to work with your "guarder" and turn the behavior around. However, pay particular attention to parts of the book where she addresses why whatever you were attempting to do didn't work. It is essential that you are consistent in what you are doing....all the time and also that you are not "milktoast" when it comes to training or establishing yourself as the alpha. These 2 things are mandatory in order to turn the behavior around.

I've not put any of the methods into action yet, as I'm not done with the book. But also, I'm in a bit of a quandry of how to go about it. One of mine guards objects, namely me, however, he doesn't do it all the time. So I'm not real sure how to go about subjecting him to what sets him off.

I'm also going to check into a behavioralist, who, hopefully, has had more experience in this area than I.

Anyway, good luck!
 

Reggie

Boxer Pal
Thanks everyone for the help!

The book sounds like what I need but dog behaviouists are a little thin on the ground here! Still, I'll search.

Like one of my repliers - sorry I forgot to look at the name before I started writing this - he doesn't do it all the time so it will be hard to control the situation.

And he only does it when he's being petted first, I can pet them both together no problem and he has no problem with me petting Solar at all. As long as she doesn't try to butt in when it's his time. Very difficult to work with.

Anyway, I'll buy that book and see what I can do.

Thanks again for the advice

Reg
 

Reggie

Boxer Pal
Hi again everyone

I have tried to get Jean Donaldson's book from Sitstay.com but, unfortunately, they don't sem to deliver to my part of the world. Amazon, although they have plenty of books about training etc., don't have this one.

Does anybody know of an alternative place I could get it that does actual worldwide deliveries? I am having trouble finding a gog behaviourist here and I think I'll have to work on this one by myself so I really am desperate!

Thanks

Reggie
 

Tulsa-Dan

Your Friendly Moderator
Try one of the major booksellers online such as Amazon, or Barnes & Nobel or Borders. They can usually get it to you anywhere in the world. I know Amazon delivers most everywhere. It may be expensive however for the shipping charges.

Good luck.
 
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