Wow, thanks, everybody! We have set our date for June 10, 2006. We like June but this June is too soon to put anything together. We have both been married before and want a small wedding but a big party with our family and friends afterwards. So I am not going all out with bridesmaids, videographer, etc., just very simple. We thought we might have it at a 1920's Georgian Brick bed and breakfast that is just 3 blocks away, they have a lovely garden with a fountain. I know the guys that run it and they are fantastic. I guess I forgot to mention that my fiancee has a beautiful 8 year old daughter that he has custody of, so I'll be a mom to a skinkid now too. She's a good little girl, very smart and articulate, and she loves her fur-brother and sisters!