Hug Your Old Guys ( A Must Read )

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buddy'smom

Boxer Pal
I had this sent to me via e-mail today from a good friend of mine, and I wanted to share it. I kinda hit home with me. Jean


Get a box of kleenex and then read this:

A MESSAGE FROM MAX:

My name is Max and I have a little something I'd
like to whisper in your ear. I know that you humans lead
busy lives. Some have to work, some have children to
raise.

It always seems like you are running here and there,
often much too fast, often never noticing the truly
grand things in life.

Look down at me now, while you sit there at your
computer. See the way my dark brown eyes look at
yours?

They are slightly cloudy now, that comes with age.
The gray hairs are beginning to ring my soft muzzle.
You smile at me; I see love in your eyes. What do you
see in mine?

Do you see a spirit, a soul inside who loves you as
no other could in the world?

A spirit that would
forgive all trespasses of prior wrong doing for just a
simple moment of your time?

That is all I ask. To slow down if even for a few
minutes to be with me.

So many times you have been saddened by the words
you read on that screen, of others of my kind, passing.
Sometimes we die young and oh so quickly, sometimes
so suddenly it wrenches your heart out of your throat.

Sometimes we age so slowly before your eyes that you
do not even seem to know, until the very end, when we
look at you with grizzled muzzles and clouded eyes. Still
the love is always there, even when we take that long
sleep, to run free in distant lands.

I may not be here tomorrow; I may not be here next
week. Someday you will shed the waters from your
eyes, that humans have when deep grief fills their souls,
and you will be angry at yourself that you did not have
just "One more day" with me.

Because I love you so, your sorrow touches my spirit
and grieves me. We have now, together. So come, sit down
here next to me on the floor. And look deep into my
eyes. What do you see? If you look hard and deep
enough we will talk, you and I, heart to heart.

Come to me not as "alpha" or as a "trainer" or even a "Mom or Dad",
come to me as a living soul and stroke my fur and
let us look deep into one another's eyes, and talk.

I may tell you something about the fun of chasing a
tennis ball, or I may tell you something profound about
myself, or even life in general. You decided to have me in
your life (I hope) because you wanted a soul to share
just such things with.

Someone very different from you, and here I am. I am
a dog, but I am alive. I feel emotion, I feel physical
senses, and I can revel in the differences of our
spirits and souls.

I do not think of you as a "Dog
on two feet" -- I know what you are. You are human, in
all your quirkiness, and I love you still.
Now, come sit with me, on the floor. Enter my world,
and let time slow down if even for only 15 minutes.

Look deep in my eyes, and whisper to my ears. Speak with
your heart, with your joy and I will know your true self.
We may not have tomorrow, and life is oh so very short.

Love,
Max (on behalf of all canines everywhere)

"May be reposted and shared freely as long as this
credit appears with the post given to J.D. Ellis
2001"
 

Aimee

Boxer Insane
Where is the crying icon when I need it...............

Thanks for sharing, their time here is oh too short and the amount of time we spend away from them is just too long!
 

karens

Boxer Insane
That really hits home with me, as my Nikki girl is getting up there in age. She will be 8 next month and her face is all gray. As I run around the house, she follows me everywhere and gives me a look, like "hey stop and pet me." Which I do. She knows how to divert my attention with those big brown eyes, any time she wants!
 

Kysha

Completely Boxer Crazy
That brought tears to my eyes when I read it.

Just last night when I was cuddeling with the dogs (a nightly ritual), I really noticed how old Tegan is looking. She will be 6 in August, but she is already very grey in the muzzle and starting to loose some of her muscle mass (this could also be due to her bad back).

I am not ready for her to get old. Tegan will be the first boxer that I had to grow old, my first boxer died at 4 :( The older she gets, the older I get too!

I do spend alot of time with my dogs (too much some people have said), but it never seems like enough.

The dogs are very special creatures.
 

ZachsMom

Super Boxer
What a special poem that really hits close to home. Zach will be 9 years old in June and believe me I cherish every second with him. The other night I had to curl up with him on the couch (to his dismay) and just lay there with him. Of course I got all teary eyed just thinking about the day he will cross over the Bridge. Heck, I'm getting a lump in my throat now.
 

oz4lines

Completely Boxer Crazy
I lost my Adolf at age 13, just a few months back.
While we did everything together and we spent many quality years together.
NOW I understand, Now that its too late and it hurts too much.
There is never enough quality time and never too much love to give.


Truely beautiful.
Jill
 

Louby

Super Boxer
That is definately a must read for all dog owners out there. Thank you so much for sharing it with us all, I am going to give Oscar a huge hug right now!!
 

Sam S

Boxer Booster
Thanks for sharing that lovely poem.

I am grateful everyday I have with my 2 babies......they are always there to share everything with.

I take time out every day to just lay down with my 2 & chat, hug & sniff them.

I know this would sound weird to most people, but I know I can share that about myself here at Boxerworld, cause I know you all do the same too :)
 

cb977

Super Boxer
Wow! What a beautiful poem. It really hit home as my Rottie Max turned 11 on Christmas Eve, and when I think of the inevitable, it just breaks my heart. Our boxer, Sammi, demands more time and attention (just because...) but we make sure that Max knows he is loved. I do get down on the floor just to spend some "us" moments and when the day comes that he has to leave me, I'll be right there with him so he's not alone.
:(
 

Cindy Creel

Boxer Insane
Oh my! How beautiful and true. I am sitting at my computer crying again. My family thinks that I am insane for crying when I read these stories. I am insane, but that is besides the point. I am going to get off the computer right now and go love on my babies. Thank you for sharing what we all should be doing with our furbabies.

Cindy
 
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