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my buddy

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I'm so sorry for your situation, I hurt reading all the sad stories as we lost our Teysha in Oct. She was not feeling sick that we saw, but I knew that our days with her was coming to an end. I spent every moment with her that I could. One night my wife went to the bathroom and Teysha, as usual, followed her and sat down like normal in front of her. When my wife came back to bed she noticed Teysha laid on the floor on my side. She had her blanky at the foot where she slept since she couldn't jump up on the bed anymore. I woke to her making noises, which she always did, like having a bad dream. I patted her on the head and reassured her everything was OK. When I got up I knew instantly she had passed. I woke up to her last breaths, she said her goodbyes. I asked her to find me a new baby to love. She did, believe me. We now have Buddy. He is so much like Teysha its unreal. The day we heard about Buddy I didn't have the 500 that the couple wanted for him. I hit 500 on a ticket, called the people up that day and the rest is history. He's awsome! It helps the aches having him and I'm sure your baby will find one for you, trust me, he will. My prayers are also with you
 

Donna1969

Boxer Insane
So very sorry you have to say goodbye to your baby. Know that you are doing her a great service by letting her become free of pain/sufffering and letting her go with dignity as she deserves.

Its hard to say goodbye. I cannot even imagine *knowing* the time/day when your baby will pass. My Blizzy had lymphoma and I knew we had limited time with her but I didn't have to make an appointment and wait it out. She just crashed really hard one day and I *knew* it was time.

I know nothing anyone can say will ease your grief one bit, but know that there are so many here that understand 100% how you feel right now and what you are going through. And I am sure I speak for all of us..if you need support or just a place to vent/rant..feel free. I know I have done it during Blizzy's illness and after Blizzys passing.
 

lafsalot

Boxer Insane
Tigress said:
Well, we have finally made the decision. The appt is for Monday, next week. I'm thinking after today, we may change it to Thursday or Friday of this week. A friend showed me to the rainboxbridge website. It was nice to read some of the other boxer memorial entries.

Thanks to you all for being here for me.

I know all to well how hard it was to arrive at this decision, and just wanted to let you know that we will remain here to support you. Praying for your strength to see you through this ~ Cathy
 

efb01

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Two things that happened the day before I put Sherlock down helped me make the decision. First, my other dog Copper would sleep back to back with Sherlock, but don't put your paws on him or he would jump up and growl at Sherlock. Sherlock climbed on the bed and actually sat on top of Copper with his paws on his neck. Copper just looked at him and licked his face and went back to sleep. Later that night Sherlock was sitting on the deck and just looking up at the sky. He didn't even come in when I called him. We sat out there looking at the stars for about 30 minutes. I helped Sherlock to the Bridge the next day and have a wonderful last memory of being with him. We have the ability to help our companion animals go with diginity and with less suffering. It's our last "gift" to them for all the love and laughs they have given to us over the years. It's never easy and you might go through a period where you might think you did it too soon and the "what if" stage (what if I had given him one more day, week etc.) but in your heart you will come to know that you did the right thing at the right time and that will get you through this.
 

Rocky's-Mom

Super Boxer
My heart reaches out to you and I pray you find peace in knowing you did what was best.....in boxer love.....Rocky & Mom
 

jksjkc

Super Boxer
Sam

Yesterday must have been so tough for you. I'm so sorry to hear about your baby.
Sending lots of prayers for strength your way.
Godspeed Sam.
 

sunnyboxer

Boxer Booster
All of your post have me in tears. My prayers are with all of you and pray that you stay strong. Please hug Sam for me.
 
Tigress said:
Well, we have finally made the decision. The appt is for Monday, next week. I'm thinking after today, we may change it to Thursday or Friday of this week. A friend showed me to the rainboxbridge website. It was nice to read some of the other boxer memorial entries.

Thanks to you all for being here for me.

I am so sorry that the time has come for you to say goodbye to your sweet baby; just please know you are doing what is best for her to let her go peacefully and without pain or suffering. You are doing the bravest, kindest thing you could ever do for her. My heart is breaking in a million pieces for you because I do know how hard it is to let go. As Donna said, we are all here for you whenever you need us, and we share your pain as if it were our own, because we have all been there. I am so sorry.
 

crowpete

Boxer Insane
I am sorry you will be saying goodbye soon. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. I wish there was something I could say to eas your pain and help Sam be hole again. Please know we are all here for you and you can cry on our shoulders when ever you need. Many hugs to you. Please give Sam a hug and kiss from Darby and I.
 
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