My parents used to own a vending machine company that covered most of southern and central Oklahoma. There was a homeless man that stood on the same corner and every Thursday my dad would stop and give him all the food that was pulled out of the machines. He always seemed very grateful. One day he had a puppy with him and dad went and bought a bag of food for the dog too. It always breaks my heart to see people who have been dealt some awful blow in life.
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Where in Minnesota was this? I'm in Minneapolis and I guess that if it was here in the TCs I would keep an eye out. Put some food in my car for the poor dog. In the past I have always given money and whatever I had to help a person out. In so may instances it just seems to backfire. You try to be nice to someone and help someone out and they seem to be most ungrateful. Most times not, but enough to make me feel like not doing it anymore. Certain instances I do. Poetry readers, street musicians, people that are obviously traveling. People that are trying to do something to make people feel compelled to give money. Not just some sob story that I've heard a thousand times. My car ran out of gas blagh, blagh blagh.... But anymore, I don't feel compelled to do the nice thing, and quite often I feel worse in the end if I do. You go downtown here and you are practically run over by people asking for money. I think sometimes that I must have a sucker tattoo on my forehead that I don't know about. Maybe selfish I guess. I'm a believer in karma and I guess that if I'm ever down and out on one last dollar I will probably be screwed. Hopefully I don't find out.
Corey
Corey
Boxerpal1
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During the holidays, my fiance's family makes gift bags up for the holidays. They contain travel size: soap, toothpaste, toothbrush, wash cloth, raisins, granola bar, juice box, etc.
I felt a little awkward handing them out at first but every recipient was so grateful that we're going to continue the tradition with our future fam.
I felt a little awkward handing them out at first but every recipient was so grateful that we're going to continue the tradition with our future fam.
cashisking
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When I lived in the cities, there was a homeless man in Frogtown who had a few dogs, He would do odd jobs at the business' there (mostly clean up at the bars) in return for food. His dogs were very well taken care of, if one had to go to the vet, a deal was always worked out by people who knew him. He was a decent enough guy who was down on his luck, but he LOVED those dogs VERY MUCH, his cart was always filled with dog food and alot of times I think he went hungry so the dogs could eat. This thread brought him back in my mind.. Are you by any chance speaking of the Frogtown area??
luvrboxers
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I am always leary of "homeless" people, I know there are some truly homeless, but I also saw a special on 20/20 awhile back that followed some of the people you see standing on the side of the road with the please help, god bless signs. Several of them went to their cars (parked about 5 blocks away, behind a building) drove to a really nice house on the other side of the city, cleaned up and went to a fancy restraunt for dinner. They interviewed a few of them (faces blacked out, of coarse). Summary: Some panhandlers make more than $50,000 per year standing on street corners. That made me sick!! So if I see someone that looks like they are sincere with their will work for food sign, I will go buy them a burger and fries or something and give to them with very little money.. I saw a guy once in McDonalds counting change, trying to make enough to buy a cup of coffee to warm up (no loitering in McD's, so you either buy something or get out). I bought him a cheeseburger, fries, and coffee and gave him about $5. He was so grateful he shook my hand and said thank you about 25 times while I waited for my food. That makes a person feel good!
Now about the dog food--- great idea!! I often see dogs with people standing on the corner with homeless signs. :(
Now about the dog food--- great idea!! I often see dogs with people standing on the corner with homeless signs. :(
Rott N Box
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No, actually it was just south of st paul on hwy 61, I think it's afton or maple grove.
Reading everyone else's replies made me remember when I was 8 my family was on vacation and a guy was trying to get food from a dumpster behind mc donalds. My dad stopped and gave him some carl buding turkey. I was so mad that my dad gave away my favorite meat I pouted for the rest of the day. :rolleyes: Now, of course, I would do the same thing if someone were in need.
By the by, I haven't seen the man or his dog since that day and I've driven past there about three times since. :(
scribe1128
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We were vacationing in Key West almost two years ago and there are always panhandlers along Duval Street, the tourist area. But one young man was there with a little chocolate lab puppy and had a sign, "help me feed this puppy." So I'm thinking, year, right. But I went back the next day trying to find the guy so I could go to the store and get a bag of dog food. Never did find him, though.:rolleyes:
adeinert
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This thread made me think of my first homeless experience. I went to college in Gainesville, FL (GO UF) Anyway, I grew up in a small town where we have no panhandlers. We were at a convenience store and a "homeless" person asked me for money. Well, I scooped up all of my friend's change in the car( 3-4 handfuls of mostly quarters) and gave it to him. When the friend got back, she called me naive, that he wasn't going to go buy food.
Later, we went to a bar to hear a band and as I walk by the bar there is the homeless man with all the change all over the counter buying drinks!
Later, an undercover article came out in the local paper that interviewed some "homeless" people of the college area. Most of them had homes and made over $30,000 being a "homeless" person. This wasn't this man's case, but it makes you think twice about handing out money and instead getting them a meal.
Live and learn! Buying food is thoughtful and it targets the right people.
Ashlie
Later, we went to a bar to hear a band and as I walk by the bar there is the homeless man with all the change all over the counter buying drinks!
Later, an undercover article came out in the local paper that interviewed some "homeless" people of the college area. Most of them had homes and made over $30,000 being a "homeless" person. This wasn't this man's case, but it makes you think twice about handing out money and instead getting them a meal.
Live and learn! Buying food is thoughtful and it targets the right people.
Ashlie
Rowdy Boys
Completely Boxer Crazy
It breaks my heart to see a homeless dog. It's not the animal's fault in the least and I pray they aren't being used as a sympathy plea. I know I shouldn't be, but I tend to be very skeptical, in general, about panhandlers - especially when you see the same one day in, day out.
I had a guy approach me one night over a year ago and asked for money. I offered him a brand new, unopened box of Cheez-It crackers that I had in my car (I was traveling). He looked at me a little strange but then he took them and said thank you.
I had a guy approach me one night over a year ago and asked for money. I offered him a brand new, unopened box of Cheez-It crackers that I had in my car (I was traveling). He looked at me a little strange but then he took them and said thank you.
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