HELP...Littermates??

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ESRA

Boxer Pal
Hi All,
I have been an avid reader of this site and am now a new member and am in need of advice. My partner and I are five weeks away from bringing home our first boxer a brindle male named Morhpeus. After looking for months we finally found the perfect pup. Here is the delema Morpheus has a male littermate who we are also considering purchasing. Even though my partner has had a boxer before we know very little about owning male littlermates. Can anyone out there help provide some advice and guidance.
 

Jan

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I wouldn't get littermates and certainly not two males. Littermates will bond with each other and not with you. It is much more difficult to raise two puppies, especially to house train them. If you have two, you will never know who is having the accidents.

I would get just one and when he is well trained, then if you still want two, get another one. As female would be best as they will be more likely to get along. The first dog will help you train the second, as he will hopefully be setting a good example. for the new puppy.

Good luck!
 

Marley's Mom

Boxer Buddy
I disagree! I actually have two 11-week old littermates and am very happy with my decision to get two! I have a male and a female so I can't speak for having same sex littermates, but I can tell you that they have definitely bonded with both me and my husband! Don't get me wrong, it's very difficult with housebreaking etc...but their adjustment into our home and away from their mom was great! I couldn't even imagine only having one now! One thing that was difficult was the added expense of having two puppies, both needing shots, and one that ate peach pits and having to go to the vet for x-rays. In the month we've had them we've spent almost $800 in just vet bills and they have to go in on Friday again! Good luck with your decision!
 

kassa

Boxer Insane
I think the "bonding to each other and not to you" issue is a bit overstated; still, I've raised littermates and it isn't particularly fun (at least as a single person). It's hard to keep a close eye on two pups at once, which makes housebreaking very difficult. As soon as you see one start to sniff and go to pick him up, the other is merrily whizzing away at the opposite end of the room.

If you do decide to do this, have separate crates and go out of your way to give them time apart from one another -- not because they will overly bond with each other as opposed to you, but that God forbid something happen down the line, they are able to tolerate being alone, having experiences without the other, etc.

This means puppy kindergarten, perhaps sending them separately for occasional afternoons or overnights at a friend's house -- the goal is to give them an identity apart from the other.

I found it was more than twice the aggravation for NOT twice the pleasure, but your mileage may vary :)
 

cl2ysta1

Banned
"As soon as you see one start to sniff and go to pick him up, the other is merrily whizzing away at the opposite end of the room. "


LMAO!!!
 

Mama_Zookeeper

Boxer Insane
I tend to agree with Marley's Mom in respect to finances. I love my pups, but I am a realist. Puppies are expensive to begin with, vet bills for vaccinations and neutering, food, all the equipment (crate, bowls, blankets, chew toys, collars, leashes) because this is your first pup. I would tread the waters a little more cautiously and take 1 pup home. In the months that follow keep in touch with your breeder and possibly take another home down the road.

The bonding and male to male aggression Jan was speaking of is very common and I would hate to be in the position of falling in love with a pup, then having to give one up or worse.

Dora & the Zoo Crew
 

alohaboxer!

Super Boxer
I want to add to the post before this one, before I got my baby I read all the stuff on boxers and their health, I read it but I didn't actually anticipate it. I love my Cassius to death, but he has had his fair share of health issues, and at just 7 months old...we've already put a big wad of cash in our vet's pocket! He's had sensitivity with different foods, (took a while to get it worked out), he regularly gets hives (sometimes requiring trips to vets for antihistimine shots), he's had unexplained hair loss (unexplained because after numerous testing it shows nothing), and we've had a hard time getting the fleas under control (tropics=fleas). I'm glad there is only one of him!

So if money is no issue for you, and you have lots of time to give them attention (for loving/training), and you don't mind lots of trips to the doctors, and tons of visits to the yard for bathroom breaks then maybe it would be okay? I would just hate for you to get the boys, and fall in love (which you will), and not be able to handle it......hard decision, hope this can help, good luck.

Lindsay & Cassius :)
 

ESRA

Boxer Pal
thanks

I really appreciate all of your input. I think after days of deliberation and taking into account your advice we have decided to go with one and love and spoil him :). I am sure once he comes home I will be writing for more advice. Once i figure out how to put photos on the site I will. We have been visiting him and he (Morpheus) is a bundle of joy, very brave and definately not afraid. We also got the pick of the litter.
 

M&M'sMaMa

Boxer Buddy
I have two littermates that just turned 6 months old. As for same sex littermates, i can't help out as I have a male and a female. Before we got our pups (and i mean a year to 6 months before) we started researching like crazy and saving up our money. We knew that the pups would cost a lot, we knew that the vet bills, toys, crates, etc. would cost a lot and as we saved we bought little items here and there to space out the cost.
When it came time to get the pups we already had everything we needed for them to be happy and healthy (crates, toys, food bowls, food, a good vet, etc). We also had enough money to purchase both pups and pay for their shots and the other surprises that came our way. Two weeks ago we had them spayed and neutered and had enough money to cover that. I think if you plan wisely, save your money, and devote the necessary time littermates can be wonderful and be very rewarding. But like i mentioned earlier, i know my situation is unique and that many cannot afford, nor devote the time and energy to 2 puppies. (We still don't have cable tv in our house- just as an example of how devoted we are).
I have to say that my experience is as unique as every families experience is. My experience is unique in the fact that our pups have been such a blessing and not at all an inconvenience. We got them at 9 weeks old and I immediately took a 5 day stay at home. We moved our matress and their crates to the dining room and slept there for 3 months so that the pups had easy access to the door to go outside. For the first month we only allowed them in the kitchen and the dining room where messes could be easily cleaned up and where they could see the door that led outside. We never left them unsupervised (unless they were crated) and had very few housetraining accidents. I must say that to make this all work we did devote much of our time to our pups. After i took off 5 days, my fiance would come home from work 3 times during the day (about every 2 hours) and let them out to play and pee. Now, i'm currently off of work for the next 2 months and i still devote much of my time to my pups.
I definitely would not reccommend littermates to anyone who doesn't have the time or money to devote. But as for the comment that the pups will bond with each other and not you i have to disagree from my experience. Our dogs do love each other very much and they do play with each other a lot which allows me time to read a book outside while keeping an eye on them while they play. But they do love us very very much. THey always try to curl up with us. Whenever my fiance or i sit on the floor one or both try to lay on us... they always want to curl up with us in bed and no matter what room in the house i am and no matter how hard they are playing they always manage to play in whatever room I am in.
I think it all depends on the situation, the puppies themselves, and the time you have to commit. Best of luck
 
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