Wow, I am so sorry about the death of your 9 year old, I cannot imagine what you are going through, how painful it must be for you and your family.
I already have tried several months of infertility treatment with no success. The doctor said our next step is going to have to be IVF. How many times did you do IVF? I'm sorry it was not successful, I know how hard it is physically and mentally.
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers over the loss of your child, Again, I am so sorry.
Carrie