Female Boxers

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Becca1975

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I was wondering if this statement is true that 2 female boxers do not get along. II have a 3.5 year old female and I have someone that wants to give me a 9 month old female. I have been told that 2 females will not get along. I know someone that has a male and a female and the female is 10 months old. My 3.5 year old and the 10 month old are like inseperatable. I was hoping that if the dog is young enouph that they will bond faster. Please give me an advice that you can inregards to this issue. The boxer that will be given to me looks exactly like my oldest girl!
 

totallyhip

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I don't know the answer:( but I have heard this myself. Also I know of some rescues that will not adopt out females to homes that already have females.
 

gmacleod

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Yes, there's truth to that. It would be more accurate to say that multiple females are at *high risk* of not getting along though, than to make blanket statements about will or will never.

The problems with bitches are several. First, the failure rate of multi-bitch combinations is higher than any other (male/female or male/male). So in the first instance, the risk of problems is highest. That's not to say that it never works - in many cases it does. But the risk of failure is not insignificant.

The second, and actually the biggest problem, is that *if* there are problems, then they're likely to be serious and dangerous ones. Bitch fights are very often fights to the death. Unlike dogs who generally just fight for supremacy and cool down once that's sorted out, bitches don't give a damn about who's the boss. They're fighting to get rid of the other bitch. Therefore, it may only end when one bitch is dead or otherwise removed. You break up one fight, they'll have another one tomorrow and again next week, and next month. See the problem?

Putting it into some amount of context, many breeders and rescues simply won't rehome a bitch into a household that already has one.

And just to complex things one step further, bitch fights rarely start before adulthood. Meaning that if you adopt an 8 month old bitch, you probably won't have any problems at all - until she hits 2+ years old. "Bonding" early is not a factor here - some of the worst bitch fights are mother/daughter or sisters. After the 2yr mark, then you might have problems - but there's little way of knowing whether you will or won't until that time. That's the real heartbreaker about bitch fighting... it doesn't happen early, so people have had both bitches for months or years before they're faced with a problem. And it's an extremely difficult problem to solve. In some cases, it cannot be resolved and you end either having to rehome one bitch, or live playing musical dogs, keeping the pair separated by at least one door 24/7.

Soo - where does that leave you? Nobody can guarantee to you that it will work, or that it won't work. It would, however, be rather rash to adopt this young bitch without fully considering what you'll do (behaviourists, keeping them separated, rehoming, etc) if it should happen that in a year or so's time the two begin to fight. It might not ever happen, but it's common to the point of notoriety, so you really do need to consider the 'what ifs' in this sort of situation.
 

ELubas

Boxer Insane
Would agree with gmacleod and , for me, the risk is too high. Who wants to be in the position of giving up one of two beloved dogs because they cannot live safely together. I have a friend who was badly bitten trying to break up her two female german shepards, and one of the dogs was badly mauled as well. And these are obedienced trained dogs but once they went at it it took her husband and another man to get them apart :( My female is feisty and challenged my older male. With the help of a behavorist we worked it out, but my boy is very mellow-and a male. I am sure if I had my Nysa and another female once would have to go. Good luck with what ever you decide...
 

Biff

Boxer Insane
GMac is spot on as always - 2 dogs fighting is bad, but 2 bitches fighting is deadly.

Whilst "some" bitches "may" get on (and I know quite a few who do) imo it is really not worth the risk, and I would advise anyone to avoid a F/F combo at any cost.

....and this advice comes through first hand experience :(
 

jontiff

Boxer Buddy
I was just curious if female/female fighting is pretty much across the board with all breeds or just certain breeds? I have a friend who has 3 female jack russells - about 9, 5, and 1 and all get a long well. Is this a special case or just not uncommon for jack russells? Do some breed bitches fight more than others?
 

gmacleod

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Yes, some breeds are worse than others. That doesn't ever make it a negligible issue, of course - this is a problem that exists in all breeds to varying degrees (and one example doesn't make the rule). But indeed, certain breeds or types of breeds are more prone to bitch fighting than others.

Boxers are a bully breed. That actually refers to type, as in descended from bull baiting dogs. But (frankly, and notwithstanding the other features of their character) it's a term that can equally be applied to their temperament. They are inclined to be bullies (LOL - how many hundreds or thousands of posts are there in the behaviour forum about people's boxers bullying other dogs at the park?), and more ready than many to fight.
 

jontiff

Boxer Buddy
Thanks for your reply - I was also wondering if female boxers are more prone to fighting period (male or female). I have noticed my boy is happy go lucky and usually runs from confrontation while my girl usually bows up on smaller female dogs - regardless of breed. Although she doesn't seem to try this with male dogs (yet - she's only 7 months).

Also, my brother-in-law has had a lot of problems with their male and female boxers fighting ever since the female turned about a year old. He isn't sure how to reconcile the fighting problem.
 

gmacleod

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Harder to say... in that case, I really think it comes down to the individual dog and personality. Sure, many males are more laid back than females, but that doesn't necessarily equal submissive. And when it comes to adolescents, I've a feeling that the subjects of 'bullying other dogs at the dog park' threads are perhaps a majority adolescent males...
 
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