RE: Not a Cuddler
My Male Kaine is exactly the same way. He doesn't really care much for all the mushy gushy kisses and hugs. He doesn't like his space crowded. If you try to sit next to him and he feels crowded, he will jump off the chair or whatever and look at you like....excuse me, your crowding my space. He will tolerate kisses and hugs and strokes, but he doesn't prefer it. His way of showing affection is by bringing his toys over and having a good game of tug. I don't quite understand it myself, but I had a female like that too. Zoey is the complete opposite, if your not paying attention to her, she woo-woos until she gets it. She loves affection any way she can get it. She would just about let you do anything to her. It's funny how different they can be!