BF's move has officially begun. (Long)

[owen's mum]

Yeah, since they actually moved out, most of my possitive "This is going to be soooo much better in the long run," feelings have pretty well left me.

I finally get that I have to greive BEFORE I can move on and be strong and fantastic again. I'm so lucky to have such a great group of people around me to help me through this (both in the regular world and on boxerworld :D ! )Thank you guys for all the support and kind words.

Sometimes it feels almost too easy, and then it gets way too hard. I miss them horribly, but I really DON'T miss all the baggage and people telling me how to run my own home that went with them.

His family basically had me convinced that I was the whole problem, but I talked to a friend last night, who convinced me that no one was the problem. They are who they are, and they have their way of doing things. I am who I am, and I have my own way of doing things. The two ways of life were not working well together, but there is nothing wrong with my way. I just need to get myself together, work towards my goals, and when I'm really ready, find someone who's more like me.

Now staying sane through the next few weeks...that is going to be a challenge! Luckily I have my Owen boy to make me laugh and smile lovicon .

 

[abradbury.5]

Tina--you're totally correct. People are who they are and you cannot change (nor should you try) who they are. When you're ready, you'll find someone who is more compatible with you. In the meantime, figure out who you are and what you want.... and make sure you do what you need to to be happy. Eventually you'll end up with someone that enhances your life. And it's better to be alone than with the wrong person for the wrong reasons.

And you're right... you always have silly, loving Owen