Raising Babies
mmcnaney said:
My little girl turned one years old on the 30th of December and let me tell you things have not changed. I just learned that they go through an adolesence phase and I saw the difference in her behavior then but she is One now and she is still acting like a puppy. By this I mean still having accidents in the house!! This morning we were only up for about 20 mins before she decided she had to go in the house and go figure it was a day when I had no carpet cleaner! She also still goes potty in her crate sometimes and we even put the divider back in. Why is she doing this? We phrase her so much everytime she goes out and she knows she is bad when she goes in the house. I'm moving in the next week the place has BRAND NEW CARPET...I dont want to have to deal with pee on this carpet too. I've done tons of positive reinforcement but it doesnt seem to be working. She is only away for 5 hours a day because I work part time and we dont want her crated all day. The only other issue we had was her running away from us but i solved that by keeping her on a leash. She used to stay by our sides but now she thinks everything is a game. She'll run full blast up to people and of course they are scared of her but she doesnt understand that. If anyone has any suggestions for the potty mistakes I would appreciate it. I feel like i've done everything to teach her not to do it:-(
We got our first boxer when I was ten. I am now 57, am alone for the first time in thirty years, and decided to get two boxers to fill my life. Boy, have they filled it. I got two females from the same litter. We went thru the potty issue, and when I moved from the condo, they were four months old. I had to replace the carpet which only had been in there for four years. We moved into a very nice 7 year old house, and they are now 14 months old. I had the carpet torn out and had laminate floors put in. They no longer have accidents because I had the french doors taken out and had a slider with a doggie door. They finally can come and go as they deem necessary. I was not able to do that before but it was like a miracle. They quit having accidents and mommy is so much happier. My experience with boxers is that they are puppish until they are around 3. Hang on for the ride. In my new house, they chewed the walls, stairway spindles, wood window shelve, as well as ruining the carpet. They knew when I would react to their messes that they had done something that I didn't like, and they have now moved on to other entertainment. Keep them busy. Lots of chew stuff and toys.
All in all, I wouldn't change anything about them. They are treasures. They give me way more than I could give them. Once you get them past the destructive age, there are no other dogs like them. The to I have now are so loving and comical. I wouldn't change anything about them if I could, but then, I knew what to expect when I got them because of the boxer we had when I was young. Good luck, get a sense of humor, and love them no matter what -- it's like raising a two year old.