Thanks Heather, can't tell you what that means to me. I appreciate it much. And I agree, what a BORING world it would be if it weren't so diverse in every aspect of life. There would be no one to learn from and no reason for a forum such as this. But, preaching to someone because they don't agree with you, is completely immature. Thanks.
VENTING!!! Anyone else get frustrated when people act afraid of Boxers?
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Bosco'sMom
Super Boxer
I have already had alot of people ask me if Bosco bites and he is only 3 months old. And also some people have just asked, "What kind of dog is that?" I can't wait to see what kind of reaction we will get from people when he is full grown!
The other day Bosco and Jake (my Cocker Spaniel) were outside and I was on my way to let them into the back yard (fenced area). This lady happened to be walking by down the street and Bosco ran up to her (tongue hanging out, tail wagging, butt jiggling) probably wanting to kiss her. She just said in a mean tone, "Get away dog." I thought it was funny because he is just a puppy. Then my 2 year old cocker took off all of a sudden chasing her and barking. When he got about 2 foot from her he just stopped and looked at her. She just kept walking. I never expected my cocker to do that, but I thought it was kind of funny. Maybe he was taking up for Bosco.
I just thought I would share the story.
The other day Bosco and Jake (my Cocker Spaniel) were outside and I was on my way to let them into the back yard (fenced area). This lady happened to be walking by down the street and Bosco ran up to her (tongue hanging out, tail wagging, butt jiggling) probably wanting to kiss her. She just said in a mean tone, "Get away dog." I thought it was funny because he is just a puppy. Then my 2 year old cocker took off all of a sudden chasing her and barking. When he got about 2 foot from her he just stopped and looked at her. She just kept walking. I never expected my cocker to do that, but I thought it was kind of funny. Maybe he was taking up for Bosco.
I just thought I would share the story.
artemis4951
Boxer Booster
i kinda like that intimidating look...
honestly, the intimidtaing look is a good thing hereabouts. the big problem that i have is people with loose dogs not grabbing theirs as mine (on leash, and both pretty aggressive) approach.
i try to tell them that mine aren't friendly and to please grab theirs, but sometimes i get rude responses in return.
also, we have a boxer ambassador here in town. every bar night, she sits outside the front entrance of the engine room (very popular bar) and watches people walk by.
honestly, the intimidtaing look is a good thing hereabouts. the big problem that i have is people with loose dogs not grabbing theirs as mine (on leash, and both pretty aggressive) approach.
i try to tell them that mine aren't friendly and to please grab theirs, but sometimes i get rude responses in return.
also, we have a boxer ambassador here in town. every bar night, she sits outside the front entrance of the engine room (very popular bar) and watches people walk by.
I know I'm a little late replying to this thread. I was looking at old threads. It made me laugh out loud. I just had to share too. I live in a duplex and the upstairs neighbors were having a b-day party for their little girl and there were a bunch of people comming over. Well, Kenzie had to go outside to see what was going on and had to greet everyone. (She stands on our grass line and will just stand and look at the neighbors until they come up to her.) I was watching her through the screen door and all of a sudden this lady got out of her car , apparently not seeing Kenzie there the whole time. Screamed ,dropped her presents, and ran up the stairs!!!!!! I just couldn't believe it . I just wanted to go upstairs and open the door and let Kenzie run in and scare the poop out of her.HAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAH Plus she was only 6 months at the time and she only weighs 45 lbs. now This thread was a good one thanks for the laughs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
myrocky
Boxer Insane
WHEW!!! I just spent 15 minutes reading this thread and I loved every minute of it. I have a huge mouth and I can get down right in your face with my opinions. Something my boyfriend says I will get in trouble for some day. Anyway here is my opinion:
appicon to you Boxerma!!! I totally agree with you and feel that you have EVERY right to vent. That is what venting is. You say how you feel and then you are done. Yes there will be some name calling and some four-lettered words, because that is required rules of venting. There will be yelling and hand gestures also rules of venting. Once all of those are out then the person is done and goes about their business.
I completely agree with you and feel you should be able to say what is on your mind. People will disagree and so be it. If you want to insult a person who insults you, more power to you. Say whatever you want, the other peson did. I know how you feel about your dog. Mine is my baby and I Love him to bits. I also get annoyed at uneducated people. Just last weekend I had three people ask me if Rocky was a pit. I think it might be a result of his brindle and that he doesn't have real defined flaps. I saw no and go on, unless they want to fight me. Then I stand my ground. People get scared because I have a harness on him, but that is only so I can have a better hold if need be and it is more comfortable for him, not because he is viscious. I get frustrated and annoyed with people and say whatever. I don't really care and was raised to speak my mind.
Just if there were more people like us in the world maybe we wouldn't have people making such rude comments.
So cheers to you
and keep the venting coming. That is what we are hear for. Sorry I came in so late, I missed so much!
Opininated boxer mom, Andie
appicon to you Boxerma!!! I totally agree with you and feel that you have EVERY right to vent. That is what venting is. You say how you feel and then you are done. Yes there will be some name calling and some four-lettered words, because that is required rules of venting. There will be yelling and hand gestures also rules of venting. Once all of those are out then the person is done and goes about their business.
I completely agree with you and feel you should be able to say what is on your mind. People will disagree and so be it. If you want to insult a person who insults you, more power to you. Say whatever you want, the other peson did. I know how you feel about your dog. Mine is my baby and I Love him to bits. I also get annoyed at uneducated people. Just last weekend I had three people ask me if Rocky was a pit. I think it might be a result of his brindle and that he doesn't have real defined flaps. I saw no and go on, unless they want to fight me. Then I stand my ground. People get scared because I have a harness on him, but that is only so I can have a better hold if need be and it is more comfortable for him, not because he is viscious. I get frustrated and annoyed with people and say whatever. I don't really care and was raised to speak my mind.
Just if there were more people like us in the world maybe we wouldn't have people making such rude comments.
So cheers to you
and keep the venting coming. That is what we are hear for. Sorry I came in so late, I missed so much!Opininated boxer mom, Andie
Recently, I have had to deal with "dog people" being nervous about Mack.
We are out walking even more than usual - 3 times a day because it is required Physical Therapy after his CL surgery.
When I see another dog coming (even old friends - bothe dog and human friends) I go across the street, around the corner or into someone's driveway. I do this because I'm terrified of him reinjuring himself, with friendly exuberance when others come close. Strangers are getting the idea he's "not safe". But for now, I just have to leave it at that - I don't want him hurt and I'm a Mother Bear about it
As I was typing this, the doorbell rang - it was a furniture delivery. Of course, Mack was right there, ready to greet any and all.....one of the delivery guys saw him and almost went white. He refused to come in until the dog was put outside - so he missed getting licked to death.
We are out walking even more than usual - 3 times a day because it is required Physical Therapy after his CL surgery.
When I see another dog coming (even old friends - bothe dog and human friends) I go across the street, around the corner or into someone's driveway. I do this because I'm terrified of him reinjuring himself, with friendly exuberance when others come close. Strangers are getting the idea he's "not safe". But for now, I just have to leave it at that - I don't want him hurt and I'm a Mother Bear about it
As I was typing this, the doorbell rang - it was a furniture delivery. Of course, Mack was right there, ready to greet any and all.....one of the delivery guys saw him and almost went white. He refused to come in until the dog was put outside - so he missed getting licked to death.
sparsey
Super Boxer
I know exactly what you mean. Most of the time people will say that Ruby is totally gorgeous, but the odd time a dumb comment comes out of someone. Like for instance one of our neighbors walks his black lab around the same time we walk Ruby. The other night we were walking down the side of the road and he was on the other side of the road with his dog. He usually stops when he sees us and of course Ruby being so darn noisy always wants to go and see why he's stopped. So she's pulling on the leash and he says "Oh my dog is just so scared of your dog". Ruby and Rocky have actually tried to play a couple times, but this guy thinks shes trying to kill the dog when she's just trying to box him. She loves to box other dogs (duh, she's a boxer) and other dogs just don't get it. So this guy thinks she's just trying to beat his dog up all the time. He won't let her anywhere near her. Funny he outweighs her by at least 40 pounds. Ruby has a little spaniel buddy she likes to play with, but this dog doesn't really get her either. She'll play with Ruby but only for a minute to two then she just wants to play with her humans. I think I'll have to get another boxer, so Ruby will have a built in buddy that understands how she wants to play.
I agree, I had parked next to a car that people were getting out of and I had Geri with me and they also thought she was a pitbull and asked me if she would attack them! Hello!?!?!? I understand being careful and asking to pet dogs that are not your before you reach down, but i wish people wouldn't assume that they are mean. I get frustrated with that too! I sometimes have to wonder that if an intruder came into my house if Geri would protect me, never seen her angry or aggressive in a guardful manner or anything, she's a little angel!!
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Jason
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I agree with you all. I hate it when non dog lovers characterize my dog without knowing anything about him. But you guys are doing the same thing. So what if a person who is not so knowledgeable in dogs ask you "is that a pitbull"? The dogs are closely related... and the media will brand any dog as a pitbull. So the person that doesn't know anything about dog breeds will get confused and resort to assumptions. You guys exhibit the same ignorance as the people whose attitude you detest.
I am not criticizing you... But the Boxer and Pit are very similar. You have to see the irnony in you not knowing something which causes you to be upset at someone else because they know even less than you. Just take it in stride and be proud that your dog is still recognizable as being descended from Bulldogs.
I am not criticizing you... But the Boxer and Pit are very similar. You have to see the irnony in you not knowing something which causes you to be upset at someone else because they know even less than you. Just take it in stride and be proud that your dog is still recognizable as being descended from Bulldogs.
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