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LAYLAMOMMY24

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Well I applied to the Northeast boxer rescue to get another boxer and we were turned down b/c we do not have a fenced in yard. We live in apartment that has access to a courtyard. And we visit the dog park when weather permits. It kinda upsets me that I know we would give a dog a great home and there response was try a shelter they dont care what you have as long as you pay the adoption fee.. Well there are no boxers in shelters around here b/c they call the northeast boxer rescue to take them.... sorry had to vent.... Just to let you all know we live in an apartment b/c my honey is in the airforce and he was just able to move off base so we found an apartment complex that excepts 2 dogs any size it is very dog friendly.. So we are here until we either buy a house or get stationed somewhere else...
 

vasha

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Being an apartment dweller with two boxers that volunteers with a rescue organization, I feel your pain.

I applied to two rescue groups in Texas, one in Dallas and one in Houston. The Dallas rescue turned me down because I lived in an apartment - but the Houston rescue didn't have an issue with it as long as I passed my home visit, which I did, and explained how I'd exercise my pups - which I did.

I would remain calm and talk to NorthEastern and see what they didn't like about your application and see if you guys can come to some sort of agreement.

Good luck!

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Originally posted by vasha


I applied to two rescue groups in Texas, one in Dallas and one in Houston. The Dallas rescue turned me down because I lived in an apartment - but the Houston rescue didn't have an issue with it as long as I passed my home visit, which I did, and explained how I'd exercise my pups - which I did.


Lone Star Boxer Rescue is really good about it. I too got Draco while we were living in our apartment. They just look for good loving homes :)


Good luck to you --when the time is right you will get to meet your Boxer
 

LAYLAMOMMY24

Super Boxer
Northeastern must not care about that because they specifically said they do not approve anyone that does not have a fenced in yard, and when I tried to explain I already had a boxer and my vet will tell you she is a very healty puppy they proceeded to tell me to go the pound to adopt a dog.... You would think that if the person has a big heart and is willing to give a dog that needs a home they would atleast come visit my house and see my accomidations. My dog gets everything in fact my boyfriend always says to me when i go shopping what did you buy Layla this time. she has a toy chest and if one gets torn we get her another. I recently found out that I cant have kids and now she is my life. I mean I loved her before but now it is more or what does mommy's best girl want to do today. It really ticked me off. And then I tried to see about other rescues and they wont adopt out of there area. And referred me to northeasten... I did go to my local spca today and asked to be put on a waiting a list for any boxers that come in. They said they would do it but didnt seem to enthused about it. Well thanks for all your help.
 

bustermom

Boxer Insane
Here's a very handsome young male boxer mix in a DE shelter:

http://www.petfinder.org/pet.cgi?ac...3ed3aee42616aa23-app2&display=&preview=&row=0

Keep an eye on petfinder.org and make sure you check surrounding states (not just DE). Good luck!!

P.S. You may also want to contact White Boxer Rescue here in NJ. They charge a fee of $50 if you're more than a 50 mile drive, but they're located in S. Jersey so that may not apply to you. I worked with Connie in the past to help rescue a boxer that was in a shelter, and she's very nice (a bit overwhelmed, but very nice!). They're a smaller rescue and may be more willing to work with your needs. Check them out here (and be sure to check out the ADORABLE 6 mo. old deaf white boxer girl who could really use a canine buddy that can hear!):

http://www.petfinder.org/shelters/NJ99.html
 
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Sabrina Jay

Boxer Insane
Fencing requirements is not uncommon with Boxer Rescue Groups.

The boxer rescue group I work with, if you have NO fence...it will really limit placement options (what dogs are avaliable for that situation)....we do place known fence jumpers without fences, but the contracts are very specific with these issues.
 

LiQiCE

BANNED
Hmph, I own a 3-level townhouse with tons of living space inside (2200+ sq. ft), but a very small backyard (and no fence) ... So does that mean I can't adopt a boxer? My previous roomate had his boxer living here for a year and he seemed perfectly happy having the house to run around in, and the weekly trips to the dog park.
 

Chris W.

Super Boxer
LiQiCE,

That just depends on what rescue you work with. Each has it's own rules. They decide whether or not they want to risk their dogs life sending it to a home where they have to decide whether the person will really do what they say and keep the dog on a leash or in a fenced in dog park. Everyone has their own opinion. All you can do is ask. After all, it is THEIR dog you want them to give you.
Sometimes people just freak me out, but in the end you just have to laugh it off. You wouldn't go meet a dog that was "free to good home" in the paper, and then go psycho on the people if they decided they didn't want their dog going to a home where the people said they would feed it only table food (or any other million things you could talk about). You'd NEVER think about throwing a tantrum at someones house. But for some reason, a lot of people see a rescue as like a retail company or something. And if they get denied, they throw a fit "at the counter" like the rescue has the motto "the customer is always right" or something. When in the end, these rescue dogs live a FAMILY life in a Family environment and the dog DOES belong to that rescue, the rescue is it's family.
Sorry I kinda got a little 'out there' with scenario's. I don't mean that you are throwing a fit or anything, just pointing out extreme scene's that happen daily in the life of a rescue. My point is simply the fact that just because the dog is up for adoption, does not mean it is right for your home. No one knows the dog better than the people that live with it. Would you feel comfortable leaving your own dog with a perfect stranger that has no yard, and your dog is used to having a yard, and you want the best home you can find for your own dog?
I would suggest if there is only 1 boxer rescue in your area, and they turn you down because of their "no-fence" policy, maybe you could offer to join the rescue. It would give them a chance to get to know you and vice versa. There are a million other things in rescue to be done besides fostering dogs. In the mean time, they may (will) become full at some point and a shelter dog may fit your lifestyle.
You might even become close enough friends with them that they will cry on your shoulder about the foster dog they loved and recouperated and cared for, the one they let go to a home without a fenced in yard, the one that the people SWORE they NEVER let the dog off leash, but that was the ONE that was killed by a car, and that was the ONE reason why they will never bend their rule again.
 

LiQiCE

BANNED
I understand the need for requirements, and I see your point about the dog possibly getting run over and such. While I think having a fenced in yard is probably preferable, I also don't think it should be a requirement. My opinion is just that the dog needs a good home, and fences don't make a good home, a person who takes care of a dog is what really makes the difference. If the person is dedicated enough, they would let the dog outside often enough that the dog wouldn't miss having a fenced yard, and it would be while the dog is looked after so it couldn't get run over. I'm not a dog owner though, so hey I could be completely wrong here! Perhaps having a fence for a dog the size of a boxer is in fact a requirement to owning one.
 

LAYLAMOMMY24

Super Boxer
I understand completly where they are coming from they want to find a good home for their animals that they save. But my thing is they didnt even try to budge I told them that I teach my dogs obedience and am very up on all my vacc. I even told her I could get a vet reference from the last 4 vets that have seen the animals I have owned in my life. I even told them I would get referals from dog trainers that I have taken my dog to. But they were like no fence no pooch. I mean if they came to my house and saw how my dog lives they would understand but I guess they think everyone lies. Maybe I should have lied and said I lived in a huge house with a fenced in yard... I dont know I just wish they would have been a little more understanding or something. Also it gets me that there are all these ads there that say we need foster homes right away please help these dogs need help. Then when you try to no luck....
 
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