Think I'm losing him

[high octane]

I am devastated. I think it's time to say good-bye. My old guy is having a lot of difficulting getting up and falls on his bottom often. This is happening so quickly, its heart breaking. He has arthritis in his knees and lower back and has been on meloxican and cartropen for 6mths but he is having such a hard time lately. We are going to the vet tomorrow and I am terrified! I wish there was some miracle drug to save him. I have had dogs and horses my whole life and I know deep down somewhere that there is no pain over the bridge but his spirit isn't fading. I think thats the hardest part. Vex is soo full of spunk but when he gets excited he falls down and its awful. For the first time ever last night he pooped in his bed because he couldn't get up (I assume). Sorry, for going on so long, but I love him enormously. Thx for listening.

 

[K8IE]

I am so sorry about your boy. I can't imagine how hard it is to see him having such a hard time doing the simplest of things. You will make the right decision for him when it is time and we will all be here for you. Sending a big hug your way.

 

[1CRAZYBXRLVR]

I am so sorry to hear that Vex is failing. I can imagine the pain you must feel every time you see him stumbling and unable to help himself. These dogs become much more to us than just pets, they are of course, our best friends. It's because they are so loving and so full of spirit that it's so difficult to say goodbye. I dread the day that I have to go through what you are having to deal with and hope too that there is something more that can be done for him. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Andrea

 

[cody&duke]

I am so sorry to hear about Vex. It is so hard on us and them. The same thing happened to my Cody but his was from a tumor and it happened so fast. I know he would want me to see him fall and not be able to take care of himself because he was so independent. I had to make the hardest decision of my life, but I know it was the best for him. Duke and I are sending hugs your way. I hope Vex is feeling better in the morning.

 

[1FlashyFan]

I'm so sorry to hear about Vex. It's so beautiful to know that his spirit is undaunted despite his pain. It's clear that Vex is very loved and holds such a special place in your heart. I'm sure Vex knows how much he means to you and he trusts you because you've earned it. Sending positive thoughts your way and wishing you and Vex the strength you need during this difficult time.

 

[Baby Bella]

I am so incredibly sorry to hear about Vex. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. It is so hard to see the ones we love in pain. You will know in your heart what is best to do for him. I send you lots of ((((hugs)))) during this difficult time. Please keep us posted!

 

[high octane]

Thank-you so much for your kind words. It feels good to know that you are all out there thinking of us. I will update you tomorrow. I am going to go snuggle with my friend (and cry). thx again. Suzie and Vex

 

[Jan]

I'm so sorry to hear about Vex. My Markus had a similar problem. He had arthritis in his spine. Near the end he the kept falling and life for him was miserable. I hated to let him go, but I think it was the kindest thing that I could do for him. I know you will make the right decision for Vex.

Take care Suzie!

 

[paysmom]

Suzie- I've got tears in my eyes just thinking of what you two are going thru- be strong. It's never easy seeing someone you love so dearly not doing well- You are in our prayers.

Carolyn

 

[Rufust]

I am so sorry to hear about Vex. We had to send our beloved mix of 16 years to the Bridge two years ago this past Easter. Spike never showed any signs of pain and was just as he always was - laid back and smiling. What made the decision for me is when he would try to step off of my mom's back deck and his little front legs would just give out and he would fall. He looked so embarassed as he too was very independent. We loved our Spike dearly but knew that he would not want to live this way and that it was time for him to be able to run around again like he did when he was a pup. Good luck with your decision, only you know what is right for Vex.