The fight for Abigail

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AbbieCupcake

Boxer Pal
Abbie is a little over a year now. When I got her she was 10 weeks old and was a Christmas present from a boyfriend (an ex now). My ex did not work so he was home with her all day "training" her on stuff like going potty outside, not chewing on furniture..He always claimed it was his puppy since he was home all day (being lazy is what I called it) but she always came to me and listened to me. I babied her of course because she was my first "baby" and she was soo adorable. lol. During the potty training, my Ex would punish her in cruel ways (punch her in the head when she would pee on the floor) and that infuriated me. I would whip that dog up and Id be shaking from anger over it. He was mean to her and I am guessing that is why she always came to me and listened to me. Yes she listened to him but you could tell she was scared to NOT listen. Well after a nasty break up and Abbie was in the middle of it (it was like custody over the dog) I was going to fight to the end for my baby girl. I didn't care what I had to do to keep my Abbie girl from this mean, cruel person. It was not easy and I had people tell me she was "just a dog" and to let him have her. I cried every night afraid he would come at night or day and snatch her from my yard. I thought the fight for her would never end but it did. That day I became a single "mother" to Abigail Cupcake. Not easy at all but I think since it was just her and I most of the time our relationship is amazing. I cant explain the joy it is to have her in my life. She helped me through a whole year of roughness..always there for me when I needed her. Kinda like I was for her. It was like she remembered me saving her form that mean Guy that would throw her down the back stairs outside or punch her in the head for having an accident.
I think the people that told me she was "just a dog" and to give her up now realize I wouldnt be who I am today if it wasnt for her.

Abigail knows I love her and I have no doubt she loves me. <3
 

johann

Boxer Insane
You and Abigal are both better off without this person in your life. I'm sure she appreciates your love and kindness every day. Thank you for saving her from him (and yourself). :)
 

Althea

Completely Boxer Crazy
I'm so glad you got out of that situation, and that you got your pup out with you. They may be just dogs, but they are dependent on us to protect them and care for them. And I've never known a more unselfish love than that of a dog.
 

nalabear

Super Boxer
way to go appicon

you have shown yourself and other just how strong you truely are. you are awesome and i am so glad you are both safe now.
 

Gatorblu

Boxer Insane
Good for you! You are a stronger person than you may realize! Also, for those who say "it's just a dog"...They are one of God's creatures! One that loves unconditionally, one that gives campanionship and loyalty like no other. I am glad you are both safe now, and I wish you nothing but good people in your lives from here on out!
 

Madea

Super Boxer
i was crying reading this. I am so glad that you and abigail are away from this mean person.Just remember God has someone just for you..He will treat you and Abigail like the QUEENS that you are.
 

AbbieCupcake

Boxer Pal
Thanks everyone..Writing that brought back lots of bad memories but looking at my sweet lil girl I can say it was all worth it. She makes me so proud and I love hearing the Vet and strangers tell me how well behaved she is for only being a 1 yr old.

And Madea..i have found a wonderful Guy that loves me and loves Abigail too. :D He has a dog too so he doesnt think I am strange when I call her my daughter or my mom and dad her Grandma and Grandpa.. He even aloud her to come along on our 1st date together...Abigail gave him plenty of kisses too..which she will only share those with very special people! :)
 

ZoeRestorick

Boxer Insane
i was crying reading this. I am so glad that you and abigail are away from this mean person.Just remember God has someone just for you..He will treat you and Abigail like the QUEENS that you are.

Amen to that! Thank goodness you and your baby girl are away from that awful situation. So glad that you are both doing well, and are certainly better off without him. :)
 

arthurf

Boxer Pal
Wow, that's a tough story to read through and not have some sort of reaction. Makes me value my pup that much more and be proud that she has a great home and I'm sure that's how you feel about yours. You should be proud of yourself for sticking through the hard times!
 

kcgal

Boxer Booster
You were both saved...

You've protected each others hearts. She won't forget that. Start over. Start wiser. Love your Abigail Cupcake. And thank her for helping you to become a stronger women.
 
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