seems to hate other dogs

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fullseason

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afternoon all,hoping some1 can give me some insight on why my 19 month old brindle boxer seems to hate every other dog we come across,he will quickly get excited and move very quickly towards them then upon meeting gets mean.on the other hand he loves all people and greets all with love and i want to play.any thoughts
 

gmacleod

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Well, it would seem to imply a lack of socialisation - that is, social skills.

Does he do this on leash, off leash or both?
 

FrequentFlyr

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Help! I have that dog too.

My Dempsey can not go to the dog park for fears he might start a fight. Dempsey was a rescue we've had him for about 3 yrs he was 2 when we adopted him. He came from a home with an older male boxer that he got on with. He got along with our Hummer well enough after a week or so and we even had a few play dates at my house with another male boxer.

The type of dog he gets along ok with is not one that will challenge his dominant nature. If a dog turns tail and runs or is to submissive, Dempsey becomes an unpredictable bully. He does ok with a dog that stands upto him but doesn't challenge him.
I must admit it worries me I fear he could attack another dog if given the chance. People no concerns at all he's great with people & children.

He's not balanced and I'm not sure what to do to correct this behavior. With Hummers passing I'm afraid he'll end up being alone, without a boxer buddy to curl up with. I would love to find a companion for him but I'm not sure that will be able to happen...

fullseason: I'm interested in reading the responses to your thread..
 

fullseason

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fullseason

Well, it would seem to imply a lack of socialisation - that is, social skills.

Does he do this on leash, off leash or both?

morning gmacleod,i would have to say rocky acts like so while on his leash during walks.as far as off his leash is only when he's on my property i'am worried about bringing him to a dog park for fear of bad behavior.he's been at a kennel a couple of times when the family and i left town for a week or so but thats it.the owner of the kennel told me rocky was just fine with his stay and interacted with others with no problem,seeing that the kennel works with a buddy system which i thought was a great idea.also gmacleod while i got you have another issue we are trying to work on and i would like your input on it.the old jumping up on us and anyone who comes into my home any tips please help and i would like to thank you for your time.
 

fullseason

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fullseason

My Dempsey can not go to the dog park for fears he might start a fight. Dempsey was a rescue we've had him for about 3 yrs he was 2 when we adopted him. He came from a home with an older male boxer that he got on with. He got along with our Hummer well enough after a week or so and we even had a few play dates at my house with another male boxer.

The type of dog he gets along ok with is not one that will challenge his dominant nature. If a dog turns tail and runs or is to submissive, Dempsey becomes an unpredictable bully. He does ok with a dog that stands upto him but doesn't challenge him.
I must admit it worries me I fear he could attack another dog if given the chance. People no concerns at all he's great with people & children.

He's not balanced and I'm not sure what to do to correct this behavior. With Hummers passing I'm afraid he'll end up being alone, without a boxer buddy to curl up with. I would love to find a companion for him but I'm not sure that will be able to happen...

fullseason: I'm interested in reading the responses to your thread..

hopefully we can both find solutions
 

gmacleod

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...i would have to say rocky acts like so while on his leash during walks.

Do you happen to know anyone else that has a good natured and confident adult dog (i.e. one that is well socialised, and neither a bully nor submissive), that might be willing to have your guy around to play? The reason I ask is because you may actually be dealing with leash aggression, rather than dog aggression.

Dogs are actually the MOST likely to display aggression when on a leash. The reason for this (in simplistic terms only - reality is probably much more complex) is thought to be for two main reasons:

(1) When they're on a leash, the normal fight versus flight decisions any dog (or person, for that matter!) makes are not possible. The dog cannot choose to flee if he feels threatened, so the only option available is fight. Hence the aggressive reaction.
(2) Dogs normal body language - signals to other dogs - are restricted when they're leashed. They're not able to give a full range of "I'm friendly, not a threat" or other deferential / polite (in dog terms) signals to approaching dogs or those they're approaching. A great deal more miscommunication then occurs in the first place.

In short - you end with a situation where it is NOT clear to the dogs whether or not they're friendly, and the dog doesn't have the option of running away or distancing himself if he's unsure. End result is not surprising once you realise this - which is that a heck of a lot more aggressive responses occur when one or both dogs are leashed.

I suspect that may well be the problem in your guy's case. You would need to see how he is off leash with other dogs to know for sure though. This is best tested in a controlled environment (NOT a dog park), where there is only one other dog to deal with, and that dog is well socialised and balanced. Better that it's off your own dog's turf too (so not your own backyard).

If you find that he's able to socialise in an off-leash environment, then I'd suggest two things:

(1) Get yourself a trainer or behaviourist to help you work on diminishing his leash aggression. This takes time and work, but generally can be done.
(2) Continue to socialise your dog off-leash, in controlled circumstances. I wouldn't suggest a dog park, where you have no control over which or how many dogs are present, as suitable. Or at least not for some time yet - he needs to be well socialised himself, with confidence built up, before facing that sort of stressful environment (imagine the damage that would be done to his confidence if he were attacked, for example).

On jumping - I suggest a search of the forums, and a separate thread if needed. There are many many threads about how to discourage jumping behaviour. Generally the solution revolves around turning away and ignoring the dog (so he isn't rewarded by gaining your attention - which is what he's after), and teaching the dog a more polite way of seeking your attention instead (which you should always reward with attention).
 
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