Re-Training a 4 year old - Socializing

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slobberlove

Boxer Pal
Socializing with other dogs is slightly better than when I initially got Briseis last Spring. When I leave her at the dog hotel they say she is fine, likes to run a lot and exercise, she even learned how to play fetch/catch because she was totally against it when I tried and first got her.

She gets along with my cousins puppy terrier other than being territorial when I'm around (my cousins terrier is not allowed to play w/me). On walks she still gets extremely tense and aggressive when approached by other dogs. I've tried the treat method of reinforcing good behavior and getting to her level and praising her for calming down/shaking off/or just ignoring. She's getting better - but isn't at the level that I am completely confident while on leash and am scared to go to dog parks. While on walks some other dog owners have encouraged me to allow her to sniff and that has worked out a few times, mostly with calm male dogs, but with female older dogs regardless of size its definitely scary - with the snarls and grawls.

I was doing some group behavioral training as well and she's a lot better now but I'm not sure what if anything I should expect.

Should I even try to continue socializing her??? Or give up since she's already 4? Dog parks at this point might be a lost cause. :(

But I also recognize that I need to retrain myself and not feel scared or nervous because she feels that as well.

Thoughts?? I'm still new at this and trying so hard.
 

Cami

Boxer Insane
You can't force her to speed up the process. She needs to be allowed to move at her own pace. That being said you did say that you have noticed improvement. Stopping now will stop the progress. Training of any kind is a life long event. Keep working with her. Expect setbacks but realize that she won't make any progress if you give up on her.
She may just surprise you!
 

Widges

Completely Boxer Crazy
Keep socialising her - it is never a bad thing. Billy is coming up 6 and I still get him out & about every day to meet & greet people & dogs!! He is better with women than men, and medium/large dogs to small ones - so I go out of my way to meet men & small dogs with him!!

Good luck
 
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