please help my pain...

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hanley

Boxer Insane
Joanna, Oscar lives in your mind & heart forever, you were blessed you had him with you so long.I too know your pain, but you would not want Oscar back with all the pain he had, remember the good times you shared, I know how much you miss him.Sending you my prayers. Run free Oscar. Hanley
 

Jan

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I am so sorry for your loss. Oscar is now at the bridge, pain free and healthy again. I am sure that Markus was there to greet him, along with all the other boxers. I understand how you feel. I still cry when I think about him. I still expect to see him lying on the couch. It will get better and all the great memories will last for ever.

Godspeed Oscar! angelicon
 

Austin's Mom

Boxer Insane
*tears* I'm so sorry about your baby. Know that he isn't alone, he has many, many new friends to play with at the Bridge, and will be watching over you. He'll always be in your heart.
 

Mollie_T

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Joanna, I'm very sorry for your loss & will say an extra prayer for you tonight. I'm sure Oscar met my sweet Bandit at he Bridge...

We lost Bandit, our Australian Shepard after 17 great years while I was a senior in high school. Since we grew up together, his loss really took a toll on me =( He didn't die of old age, if he were sick maybe I could have prepared a bit for his passing. Our neighbor's dog somehow got into our yard & attacked poor old Bandit, he didn't stand a chance against such a young strong dog. He was much too old to withstand the emergency surgery he needed, so we had no choice but to put him down. That night I had a dream about him, he was standing on a grassy knoll by a pond- looking at me, wagging his tail (we decided no to dock it when he was a pup). It was as if he was letting me know he was OK, which made me feel a little better.

I'm 27 now & I still have his picture on my nightstand beside the bed, as he will always be in my heart =) I know Oscar will always be in your heart also, God speed sweet Oscar.
 

calliehenry

Boxer Booster
i am so sorry for your loss of oscar. i write this through tears as we all know too well how difficult this is and exactly the pain you are talking about. it will hurt and there is unfortunately no way around that. but believe in the RB where oscar now has no pain, he is runningn free with many new friends and they do not know sadness there as they wait for us. and also believe that time will begin to ease the overwhelming grief that you now feel. i am so sorry, and will keep you and your family in my heart now. letting oscar go was the selfless gift you could give him at the end of his long life iwth you, and after the many years of his loyalty and love and all the other gifts he provided you with.

rest in peace oscar boy...you are missed deeply
peanut, we miss you each and every day my love bug.....you are always and forever in our hearts.
 

Rufust

Boxer Pal
Joanna, I am so sorry to hear of Oscar's passing. It sounds as if you gave him a wonderful life full of love and happiness. I too have had to go through what you are now and it is never easy, but please now that your baby is now pain free and running and playing with all the others who have crossed over. Always remember the good times you had with your dear Oscar and never forget him. He will never forget you.
 

missjojo1980

Boxer Pal
Thank you

Thank you all so much for your kind words, thoughts and prayers. It means so much to me to know there are others out there who can understand the pain I am going through right now. The pain is so raw at the moment, because every few seconds I keep expecting to see him coming bounding up to me, or see him on the step outside the house guarding the garden (he liked to chase off any squirrels that came onto the garden).

I feel so lucky to have known such a wonderful boy as Oscar. He really was super special and he had many, many friends. He will be missed by everyone who knew him.

Yesterday I felt so guilty for Oscar being put to sleep, but today I think I realise that it would not have been fair to keep him alive, as he really did not have any enjoyment in life anymore. He could no longer play or walk.

Reading all the comments on this Boxer board has made me realise that I am not alone in loving boxers like children. They have such wonderful, playful personalities and I think we are all privaliged to have boxers as part of our lives.

I would like you all to see photos of Oscar, so at the weekend I will scan in some pictures for you all to see. I am sure you will all enjoy seeing his wonderful mischeivous eyes. I think it would be a nice tribute to him to have some pictures on the board.

Thank you all again so much for being here for me through this very difficult time. I can honestly say that yesterday was the worst day of my life. I have never suffered such heartache in my life, and the ache is still there.

With love and prayers for all our babies in rainbow bridge,
Joanna
xxxxxx
 

crowpete

Boxer Insane
I am so sorry for your loss. I dont believe any words could make your pain go away...only time. Just remember that now your baby is pain free. Darby sends you lots of boxer hugs and kisses.

Godspeed Oscar angelicon
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Misty mommy of
Darby female brindle
Moosie male cat
Tanner female cat
 

Elyse

Banned
Joanna, I am so so sorry for you loss. Oscar sounds like quite a special boy and I am sure he will be a part of you forever. I wish I had the words to make you feel better. You and your family will be in our thoughts during this very difficult time. (((((hugs)))))

Godspeed Sweet Boy Oscar
 
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