Our Sophie

[Goozie]

Hi, In my introduction I mentioned about losing Sophie. Even though we got a new puppy pal for Shelby, its still hard. I get teary eyed thinking about her. She was special right from the start. She came from a litter of 14, and was the runt. My husband could fit her in his hand. I think she was some what of a hard head. Was she ever a tennis ball player!!! About five years ago, she tore a ligament in her back leg. We took her to this big animal hospital in Springfield Va. to have surgery, It cost 1500$ but she was worth every penny of it, and was like new again. That is why when she got sick we were ready to have surgery on her if it meant giving her some more time, but it did'nt. The two weeks she was sick, she was at the vets for 3 days, they put her on phenobarbitual, it was the most saddest thing to watch. She was not our Sophie. We held on to her for our sakes, but finally came to the realization that we had to let her go. My husband and I have been married for almost 29 years and I can count how many times on one hand that I have seen him cry, well that day we took her......... well, tearing up now. We still have her pic up and sometimes I want to take it down. Like out of site out of mind. People get so attached to their pets, then they die, and usually they go get another one, just to go through all that again. Now we have two to go through it again someday. We used to call Sophie, "Sophie De Queen" She gave us 10 good years of happiness! Hope you all don't think I am silly, but she was part of our family. A boxer is so personable. Each have their own personality. Just the way they cock their heads, their demeanor, the way they run and play, ways that make you laugh. I could have a few more, but then when I think of what Gracie is putting us through, I dont' think thats a good idea. She sure is giving us a run for our money. Ok, better quit now. Don't want to bore you. Thank you for letting me talk about Sophie.
Goozie

 

[ZachsMom]

I kNow Exactly How You Feel

I lost my best friend 3 weeks and I am still not back to "normal". Zachary introduced me to the world of Boxers almost 11 years ago. He was like my child and I am not embarrassed to say it.
Zachary's death was sudden and unexpected. He collapsed one morning, had difficulty breathing and very pale gums. I rushed him to an Emergency Clinic where the Vet told me that most likely a tumor on his spleen had ruptured and he was bleeding internally. Nothing they could do. That scenerio plays over and over in mind...nothing they could do.
I got to spend some time with him before he crossed the Bridge. I layed on the floor with him as he passed on whispering in his ear that I loved him. Gosh, I'm starting to cry AGAIN!
Everybody says it will get easier. But, just like Sophie, Zach will remain forever in my heart.

 

[Holden's Mom]

I am so sorry you lost your Sophie. She's in good company at the Bridge with Holden and other BW boxers. Holden has been gone nearly a year but I still miss the big guy so much. He had BCM and we had been treating it with meds for over two years. He collasped while walking, gums went pale and could draw no breath. He died en route to the Emergency Clinic and they were unable to revive him. Six years was too young to let him go. His ashes are buried in an urn in the garden. The tulips planted on the grave will bloom soon. I'll look at those elegant flowers and smile at the thought of the goofy boy. And I'll cry.

But the pain does ease with time. It's the holidays and their birthdays that are hard. it's great you were able to share ten years with your special girl.

Pam and Pete

 

[Cindy Creel]

I am so sorry to hear about Sophie. I think that your feelings are very natural about Sophie. I can still remember losing Sugar and Duchess. I still cry and it has been several years . They will always be in your heart. I just am very thankful that they were part of my life. One day we will be reunited with our furbabies. For now just think of all the boxers she is getting to know at the bridge. I hope your sorry will turn to wonderful memories.

Cindy

 

[rog1006]

We don't think you are silly one bit....in fact, we've all been there, some of us many times. Big hugs to you and your family during this time...it's so hard but it wil get better with time. promise.


Christine

 

[bustermom]

You never cry alone at Boxerworld. I'm reaching for the tissues remembering my furkids who've gone to the Bridge... and thinking that someday (far in the future) I'll be reliving the pain all over again with our current canine kids.

They are members of our family and they never live long enough. Such emptiness and pain they leave behind when they go... It makes the time we do have with them that much more precious.

Godspeed Sophie - it sounds like you had a wonderful life and I know your spirit will be warm and content wrapped in the undeniable love of your family.

 

[Goozie]

Thank you all for replying

Hi All, Thank you for replying to my message and understanding how I feel. Could'nt get through all the post with out a few tears. At times you feel alone, but coming here I know that I am not. Thank you so much.
Goozie

 

[lexismum]

A thought........

I read this here on Boxerworld once and love it............

"It came to me that every time I lose a dog they take a piece of my heart
with them. And every new dog who comes into my life gifts me with a piece
of their heart. If I live long enough, all the components of my heart will
be dog, and I will become as generous and loving as they are."

Sally