Jeff, that is truely a wonderful experience you had. I honestly believe that Orson came to you to comfort you one more time as he always did in the past. He saw you grieving and just HAD to contact you and let you know everything is going to be ok. He just wanted you to know that although you cant see him, he is still there with you and always will be. He also wanted you to know that he is alright and healthy again and is enjoying sitting on God's lap for now.
Orson Has Died
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jeffisonline
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I didn't work...
My mom brought me home a Puppy (boxer) in March.
I tried to work it out, and allow myself to enjoy the idea of a new puppy, but it was just too very difficult for me.
I found myself having break downs constantly, using the same words that I used with Orson, and I just found myself miserable, and unhappy.
I didn't like the puppy in my bed, and I didn't enjoy teaching him things because it was a constant stream of flashbacks.
So my mom kept the puppy for herself (which I think she wanted all along).
I think it's much too soon for me, and I think some people are dog people, and enjoy always having a new dog in their lives, and other like me, found their doggie soul mate, and the idea of doing it again doesn't seem so possible.
I thank you all for your advice, and I did take you up on it, but I think I might have just had the best thing ever, and I am not so sure their is a next best thing for me.
I tried!
Jeff
My mom brought me home a Puppy (boxer) in March.
I tried to work it out, and allow myself to enjoy the idea of a new puppy, but it was just too very difficult for me.
I found myself having break downs constantly, using the same words that I used with Orson, and I just found myself miserable, and unhappy.
I didn't like the puppy in my bed, and I didn't enjoy teaching him things because it was a constant stream of flashbacks.
So my mom kept the puppy for herself (which I think she wanted all along).
I think it's much too soon for me, and I think some people are dog people, and enjoy always having a new dog in their lives, and other like me, found their doggie soul mate, and the idea of doing it again doesn't seem so possible.
I thank you all for your advice, and I did take you up on it, but I think I might have just had the best thing ever, and I am not so sure their is a next best thing for me.
I tried!
Jeff
LokiGem
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It takes time to come to terms with the death of a love one. Orson wants you to be happy again. No one can ever take Orson's place. Maybe you shouldn't have another dog so soon. One day I'm sure Orson will guide you to a great companion for you, but for now just take care of yourself.
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