New Foster is stressed and HW+

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BetsyB

Boxer Insane
I picked up my new foster this morning. Her name is Lucy and unfortunately for right now, she is on crate rest because of heartworm. She only has two more weeks, and then she has to be spayed so she'll have 6 weeks in the crate- poor thing! She is white with a couple of fawn spots. I will share some pics later...
For now, she is showing some signs of being stressed like drooling and panting in the crate and not eating. She won't take any food or treats from me. She can only go out of the crate 4X's per day on leash to potty. She has a history of separation anxiety, and when stressed refuses food for a couple of days.
I tried first putting her in my son's bedroom in her crate and closing the door so nobody would bother her, hoping she would be calm and go to sleep. (She hasn't slept in about 8 hours). She kept drooling and whining, so then I brought the crate out to the kitchen where she can see everyone. Still, no better... I closed all of the blinds to make it darker in the house thinking that would be calming for her. I've tried sitting in front of her crate and speaking quietly to her.
I am her second foster home since she was pulled from a shelter. The first home (for 3 weeks) was a single girl with 8 other dogs. She was originally brought into the shelter with another female believed to have been her mother, and when the mother was adopted Lucy started getting ill and wouldn't eat for a week. She is around 16-18 months old, and has already had a litter of pups. She seems to want to cuddle, but doesn't really show any happiness. She hasn't wiggled her butt or even her nubby since they pulled her from the shelter.
If Mackensie goes around her crate, Lucy growls like crazy! She was very cuddly with us in the car. (2 hour ride home). She had to take turns sitting on every lap and then finally settling herself on my husband's lap for the rest of the ride.
If anyone has any suggestions for me, I would appreciate your help! Thanks.
 

beausmommy

Boxer Insane
Is there any way she can spend some time outside of the crate every day just relaxing on a dog bed, etc.? I picked up Annabelle (rescued by my brother and being fostered by my parents during her confinement before she goes to her new family) Tuesday afternoon and took her to my mom. She is staying in her crate while they are gone and at night but from about 6-10p.m. she is allowed out of the crate to lounge and is placed back in the crate if she becomes too excited. I can imagine that it's not much fun spending nearly 24 hours a day for 4 weeks in a crate. I know you have Mackensie but is there any way to keep them separated so that Lucy has at least a little time out of the crate each day?
 

Jagers Mommy

Boxer Buddy
Yes, I agree with beausmommy, try to have her out for a bit, just stay with her, maybe watch a movie or some tv, something mellow so she will relax. If Mackenzie is too much for her right now, maybe keep Mackenzie in a different area of the house at these times (hopefully soon she'll warm up to her).
But keep her out for a bit and maybe she can rest then, but yes, if she gets too excited put her back in the crate. Hopefully this will work out, that is REALLY tough being in a crate for so long, I would be stressed too!
Well, good luck to you! I hope all works out, keep us updated on her progress!!
 

kpowell

Boxer Insane
Sounds like she wants to be in somebody's lap, not in a crate. Any way you can accomodate her at least some of the time?
 

BetsyB

Boxer Insane
Just wanted to update on Lucy. She is no longer in my home. She was in severe distress in the little plastic crate she came in, and I literally could not get her into it myself. (I was told she was crate-trained). I had to put her in my wire crate, and she was much calmer. I left the house for 1 hour, and when I came home Lucy had broken out of the wire crate and was running loose in my house! We had taken Mackensie with us, and as we walked in the door Lucy attacked Mackensie! A little later after everyone was separated and Lucy was on leash, she went after Mackensie again, and this time my 3 year old was in between them! Thank goodness I had a tight hold of her leash! Anyway, I brought her to another foster home last night. I feel so bad, but I just couldn't chance my kids or Mackensie being in danger. I don't think I'll be fostering anymore...
 

EAO76

Boxer Insane
I’m sorry you had such a scary experience. I’m glad no one was hurt (especially your child!) I hope that you don’t give up on fostering though. Each time a dog arrives at a new home there will be an adjustment period and some bumps in the road (some dogs –as you learned- have more anxiety about new places than others). But each time you foster it will get easier. You’ll soon learn what works and what doesn’t. You’ll become a pro at dealing with all these issues and have much more confidence in handling the unexpected.
 

kpowell

Boxer Insane
Don't let this put you off on fostering. Maybe just take Mackenzie with you to meet the next one to see how they get along before you agree to foster.
 
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