Need some help at this time of year

[paula carter]

Hello
some pople in this post asked if i have any people close i do have my boyfreind he wasn't Joshua's dad but was there since he was 4 i have my mum & dad but we have decided to get away me and my bf so were just going to the lake district for those who have not heard of it it's loads of villages full of walks and we'll be taking Bruce my mum and dad are coming up just for one night

 

[haleyandmark]

Maybe that will help you take your mind off of things a little.

Again, I am so sorry that you have to be going through this at all, let alone during the Holiday season. Xenaprincess gave some really great advice! We are all here for you whenever you need us!!

Again, we will be thinking of you!

 

[lafsalot]

Paula, I am so sorry that you are going through all this, and I only wish that I could be of more help. Of course you know that we will all be here for you, and that it is important for you to get it all out and share - it is part of the healing process. You may also find the empathetic understanding and guidance you need from a bereavement support group. Thoughts and prayers are with you ~ Cathy

 

[paula carter]

come on you people i need more healing vibes than this

Hi there I go away on Wednesday just to get away from all the xmas period and the trimmings and everything like that Me and my boyfriend and Bruce and i need some more love before i leave

 

[haleyandmark]

I think there are probably not many people on this site who can even fathom what you are feeling right now...all we can offer is our condolences and let you know that we are here for you to 'talk' with and turn to.

I hope that you have a safe trip ... I also hope you can have a bitt of fun, that this trip can take things off your mind for a minute or two! Once again, we'll be thinking of you!

**Wishing you a Verrrry Merrry Christmas**

-Mark, Haley & Asia

 

[xenaprincess]

There are many people worse than you and many better but only one you so take care of yourself! Stop the negative talk. Stop the why me.QUOTE]
I forgot that I wanted to bring to this members attention, (but with the Holidays and being sick, I have not had the time) just how cruel that comment was to a person who has suffered the loss of a child! :mad: I am positive that Paula did not need to hear that from anyone in BW, as we are all here to help our friends through difficult traumatic times, as best we can! I could not believe my eyes when I read your post! Clearly, you have never gone through this type of trauma,and I pray that you never have to, so why would you tell someone who has to "Stop the why me"!! I just had to say that, now I am done.
Paula, I hope that your Holidays were at least a little "Merry". Your son would want you to go on, and infact is watching over you to help you through all these difficult times! Keep us posted and let us know how your Holidays were.

 

[Austin's Mom]

Well said, Sharon.

 

[Scorpio]

Paula, "hugs" I can only imagine what your going through, it must be so hard. Loosing a child has to be one of the worst things to go through in life. I saw a commerical on TV about depression especially at Christmas time, they say if your still feeling this way after Christmas to see your Doctor.

Everybody needs a little invisable means of support, we are here for you.

 

[paula carter]

There are many people worse than you and many better but only one you so take care of yourself! Stop the negative talk. Stop the why me.QUOTE]
I forgot that I wanted to bring to this members attention, (but with the Holidays and being sick, I have not had the time) just how cruel that comment was to a person who has suffered the loss of a child! :mad: I am positive that Paula did not need to hear that from anyone in BW, as we are all here to help our friends through difficult traumatic times, as best we can! I could not believe my eyes when I read your post! Clearly, you have never gone through this type of trauma,and I pray that you never have to, so why would you tell someone who has to "Stop the why me"!! I just had to say that, now I am done.
Paula, I hope that your Holidays were at least a little "Merry". Your son would want you to go on, and infact is watching over you to help you through all these difficult times! Keep us posted and let us know how your Holidays were.

thanks for your reply My holidays were not so good the first week of xmas was alright We went of for holidays to the lake district and i manage to take my mind of things for a little while but we got back a day before New years Eve and that was very difficult