Need advice on 2nd Dog

Status
Not open for further replies.

gabrielp

Boxer Pal
Due to some negative events in my neighboorhood (safety), my wife and I are considering adding to the family.
We currently have Bruiser who is a 11mo intact male boxer. He suffers from seporation angxiety quite a bit and could probably use a friend. Bruiser is great with kids, adults and other dogs. Kids are in the near future for my wife and I so it's wonderful that Bruiser is so gentle with kids.
My wife and I are considering rescueing either a female doberman or boxer that gets along well with Bruiser. We are leaning towards the dobie because of their protective nature.

What do you think? Will the dobie be a bad choice as a friend to Bruiser? Is my motivation all wrong?

Just looking for your honest opinions. :)
 

bommy

Boxer Booster
Gabrielp, i would have

as many dogs as I could.ALL BOXERS OF COURSE..I havent had any experience with a Dobe so I cant offer any opinions on that, but as long as yourself & your wife are prepared for the extra cost & time involved with a second dog why not!

Good luck
 

Kerry Jane

Super Boxer
A friend is a great idea....

A friend for Bruiser is a great idea, and even better to consider a rescue. When we got our 2nd boxer we wondered why we hadn't done it sooner because the 2 of them have such fun playing together - it is wonderful to see. My only advice would be to make sure that sure that the next dog you bring in does get along with your current dog.
I can't comment on the dobie, but another boxer which gets along well with other dogs would be great.
 
Last edited:

momstaxi

Completely Boxer Crazy
Great idea. Just be sure if it's a female dog you get her spayed and your boy neutered, so you don't end up with more dogs than you bargained for!
 

jasonhbaum

Boxer Booster
I added another boxer to keep my first one busy. It gives you some free time because they will play with each other. If you want a protective dog i dont think you need to go to a doberman. A boxer will show his protective side when they need to. Your pup is still young at 11mos. Mine are 1.5 and 3yrs old. They just started showing a bit of protectiveness. The older one heard a noise outside the other night and let out a loud growl that I have never heard from her before. I would get the second boxer for a playmate and just give them time to show their protectiveness
 

kjltke1

Boxer Pal
I recently (9 mos. ago) adopted a 7 yo fixed male boxer as a companion for my 3 yo fixed male boxer. My younger one also had separation anxiety which has disappeared completely since getting a companion. At the time, we also looked at Dobie's because I think they're beautiful, but after researching and contacting a breeder, we decided the breed wasn't right for us at this time. They are generally very dominant and supposedly bonded very strongly with one member of a family. Also, they are not renowned for their interactions with children, not to mention the possible problems with your homeowners insurance. These are just a few points for your consideration. But one day, I'll probably get one also because I really do love them.
 

vanholben

Boxer Pal
I have a 6½ month old boxer and just babysat my sisters doberman. I can tell you that they have a much different playing style. I think another boxer would be a better fit because they would have a lot more fun playing together. My old boxer was very protective of our house when we were home. Pretty quiet though if somebody knocked on the door and we were gone.
When we went to Costa Rica on our honeymoon all the guard dogs in the nice neighborhoods wer boxers.
Hope that helps.
 

JENTOM

Boxer Pal
My wife and I purchased a male Boxer two years ago this September. We were going to get two of them but being new first time dog owners we decided not to. Around the first year of having our male, a carpenter that was in our sub/div seen us walking our dog and stop to talk to us. He said that a stray female boxer fawn in color has been staying at his house as a unwelcome guest. He asked if we wanted to take her from him. Well I went to his house to find a skinny, very dirty female Boxer less than one year old. Did I mention dirty, her ears were black with dirt and covered with fleas and ticks. This dog had a collar with rabies tag from a local vet. I knew I had somebody's baby and the right thing to do was to find the owner. If it was my Boxer I would hope someone would try to find me. I went to the vet on the rabies tag and they did not remember seeing this dog before. The number on the tag was for an owner of another dog who did not own a Boxer and his dog had lost that collar and someone put it on this Boxer. He also has not seen this dog before. I took her home and wash and wash her to get her clean and kill the fleas and ticks. I introduced her to our male and they did the normal dog greeting of smelling. It was not long after that she was growling and snapping at my male. She is a lot smaller than him and also braver to be doing this because he towers over her. This started around food and where she wanted to lay down at. So I had to kept some distance between them. I ran a lost and found ad in the local paper which they did for free for six weeks. I had a couple of calls but no owners were found. During this time I took her to my vet for the works cause I did not know what she has had or not had and I did not want anything to make my male sick. My wife did not like this dog because of the problems it was causing with our male and she wanted to take her to local animal control. I talked with the vet about this problem and he said that because she has been on the run she has to defend what she has to keep it and that is what she has been doing running lose. He said if I keep her she may quit this behavior once she realizes that she has a place to stay with food and friendship from us and our male Boxer. He also said that if she does change she might be real protective of my wife and I because we have taken her off the street and provided her a place to stay, so be careful around starangers. Well, we never found the owner and we still have both dogs and they are now the best of friends. They will even eat out of the same food bowl with out no problem, they share everything from toys to beds. Where you see one the other is close by. I do have two of everything though. I got my male fixed not to long after that and the female fixed after she went through her first heat. She is a mean dog and gets my male all fired up when she hears a noise or if someone knocks on the door or when somebody is out side of the house, it does not matter if they walk by on the sidewalk or stop in the street in a car, she is letting them know she is there and watching. My male is not like that but she gets him started when she starts barking and growling. When we have guest over she is okay once she figures out they are our friends and they are welcomed here. All she just wants is some loving from them and tries to be a lap dog. I think she can sense this somehow cause I seen a different reaction from say a salesperson or complete stranger then from a guest that might come up. Another thing is when I'm home she follows me everywhere. Like right now she is curled up under my feet at the computer table. If I get up to leave she will follow me where ever I go. My wife and I are expecting are first baby next week so this is going to be something we have to watch to see where it is going to go. I have notice that when we have been working in the baby's room getting it ready, my female will lay down under the crib the whole time. So far the only thing I regret is not having her sooner. I won't trade my Boxers for anything!!!
 

gabrielp

Boxer Pal
Thank you all soooo much for your feedback. I think my wife and I will be looking into adding a female boxer to the family. One comment that sticks out was that the playing styles of each dog (dobie/boxer). When Bruiser plays, he puts himself in very exposed positions. :LOL:
 

Elyse

Banned
I am a little late on this but I just wanted to add my 2 cents. We live on a private block with another family and they have a Dobe 1 year younger than Nestle. When they got her we were so excited that the girls would be best friends and play together... Well that lasted a very short while. Nestle would get chewed up and Sheiba (dobe) would bite and would not play nice at all.
We keep Nestle away from her now... It is tough because we are all always outside but my husband and I are NOT comfortable allowing them to play even if we are all there watching. The Dobe's owners agree with us and are crazy about Nestle (our 2 yr old boxer) so the put Sheiba in the house when
they BBQ so we can bring Nestle.

I agree with Bommy... I would have 100 boxers if I had the room for them.
We are actually looking into getting a little brother for Nestle
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Top