My poor Dad...
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djheitz
Boxer Insane
Surgery has been delayed until tomorrow. There was some question about kidney function, which lead to an ultrasound and a possible mass on his bladder. We're not even going to think about worrying about what that could mean until he gets past the heart issue. As long as tomorrow's blood check shows the kidneys have remained stable, we're on for 9 am.
This had been the longest week already...
This had been the longest week already...
Roge
Boxer Insane
keeping you your father and family in my thoughts, keep in mind that this procedure while very daunding to the patient and family is quite common practise now. my freinds dad had it done last spring and is doing fine now they found the hardest part was keeping him from overdoing thing when he got home.
elgerdes
Completely Boxer Crazy
I'm sorry to hear that. My Nana had a quintuple and triple in her life. But it will probably help his quality of life significantly. We eventually told my Nana just to put a zipper in her chest because of all her heart issues. Ironically that isn't what went out in the end, so keep your chin up. After the surgery his heart will be on the mend and you can focus on the other things. Baby steps and conquer one issue at a time.
Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
Cami
Boxer Insane
Waiting is the hardest part! I remember going into ICU to see my dad after his quad. One of the nurses who had been "hand holding" for me took me aside and told me a few things.
She prepared me for what I would see for starters (all the things he would be connected to).
She also said to SMILE at him and that would make him feel better.
I was also to start at his feet touching them and tell him to wiggle his toes on the right and then left side. If he complied (he did) they could rule out a stroke from the procedure that very second. He passed with flying colors.
Within 4 hours from his surgery he was sitting in a chair and it was one of the best sights I have ever seen.
Hoping your dad is doing well.
If you have any questions about what he might experience over the coming days don't hesitate to ask. I can share what he went though if it will help.
She prepared me for what I would see for starters (all the things he would be connected to).
She also said to SMILE at him and that would make him feel better.
I was also to start at his feet touching them and tell him to wiggle his toes on the right and then left side. If he complied (he did) they could rule out a stroke from the procedure that very second. He passed with flying colors.
Within 4 hours from his surgery he was sitting in a chair and it was one of the best sights I have ever seen.
Hoping your dad is doing well.
If you have any questions about what he might experience over the coming days don't hesitate to ask. I can share what he went though if it will help.
Gatorblu
Boxer Insane
My dad had a quadruple bypass 6 mos ago. It was 2 days after a massive heart attack that would have killed him if the paramedics weren't already there. (He had passed out from heat stroke) He was in really bad shape. They induced a coma before and after surgery to keep him stable. 36 hrs after surgery he was sitting up, the next day he was taking short walks. He is doing great now. He is even going to the gym regularly and has lost 30 lbs!
I know your dad has other issues to deal with, but it will be much easier on him now. Sending lots of positive (((vibes)))!
I know your dad has other issues to deal with, but it will be much easier on him now. Sending lots of positive (((vibes)))!
djheitz
Boxer Insane
He ended up staying in ICU for five days. They're still working on getting his lung function back to normal, but he's much better than he was even a few days ago. The plan is to move him to a rehab facility on Monday and let him get his strength back there. The biggest challenge will be making sure he's steady on his feet again.
He's not really happy with the no sugar/no fat diet they've been feeding him, but he also hasn't eaten the Tootsie Pop my sister left for him. Hopefully this will be enough to get him to drop some pounds...he could lose 75-100 and still not be skinny. If he can handle the treadmill, that's probably his best option for exercise.
He's not really happy with the no sugar/no fat diet they've been feeding him, but he also hasn't eaten the Tootsie Pop my sister left for him. Hopefully this will be enough to get him to drop some pounds...he could lose 75-100 and still not be skinny. If he can handle the treadmill, that's probably his best option for exercise.
RoxiesEcho
Boxer Insane
Thanks for the update. I had been a little worried since we hadn't heard anything for a few days. I hope the rehab facility gets him up on his feet in no time. Prayers coming your way for a speedy and uneventful recovery.
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