Greg, you were blessed
Greg, how wonderful that you were kind enough to care for your Dad's beloved pet, Punches after his passing...as you stated, at first you felt that Punches may turn out to be more of an obligatory relationship than a welcomed one!!! What a blessing she added to your life...an extention of your father's love for a few more years... your life was so enriched by this precious Boxer, I lost one of my babies in July...she began with "Horners Syndrome", progressed to grand mal seizures and when she was conscious of her surroundings, she would look me in the eyes as if to say, "Please help me, Mamma"...with a referral from our vet, we took her to the Vet school at NC State...an MRI showed a massive brain tumor...She is now at Rainbow Bridge patiently waiting for me to cross over...I will enjoy her kisses and her company for eternity....just as in time you will see your Punches and dance with her...
I hope it will help you to know that I share your grief...but we are both truly better souls by having our babies to show us just exactly what unconditional love is...I continue to feel it daily as I am sure you do...
Take care and when you read this, look toward the sky and say hi to my Ginger when you send your love to Punches.