Feeling pretty bad right now, and just viewing this site has helped a lot. My boxer Punches was inherited from my Dad when he passed 3-12-01. I thought at first that Punches would interrupt my lifestyle. Maybe I'll watch her for a while until I find her another home, I thought. I guess that I had no idea about boxers, but I learned quickly about the personality, the pep, attitude, the expressions she'd give me.....it wasn't long that I was hooked and would not think about letting anyone else have her. She helped me through my Dads death, something that I'll never forget. I took her to work, took her for her walks, she'd go out like it was her first time, she loved it, she loved life. Never had any problems, never had any warnings of any ill health. She first collapsed on 8-30-04...fell against the wall, and by the time I got to her, she was kicking, and had a panicked look on her face. I petted her, and soothed her and eventually she was back to her normal personality. That lasted about a day and a half. I was taking her out to relieve herself, she did, and was walking back and she collapsed again, but more severely this time. It took me a bit longer to calm her and I picked her up and started to carry her to car to get her to the vet about 1/2 mile away. She was limp, but breathing, then she began to writh in my arms so I placed her down on the grass, and again calmed her. A few minutes later she was panting, but other wise could walk and seemed normal. The vet took some tests. Nothing out of the ordinary. She wanted to do an ekg, and some bloodwork to find out more. As the vet took her in the back, she acted as if I was not even there....perfectly normal for her! About 3 minutes later, a nurse came in and told me that she had another attack and they were working on her. Now I was scared. Another agonizing minute passed and the look on the vets face said it all....she was gone. Now I'm asking myself, "what should've I done?" I've been cruising the sites trying to find some kind of peace, and this one has helped. Yesterday I buried my baby...way too soon, only 6 years old. I have heard the boxers have tumor problems, and heart problems also. Some other owner must have gone through this too....can you help me deal a bit beter with this?
Lost my baby 9-01-04
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l8krgirl08
Boxer Booster
Your story breaks my heart. I am no expert by any means but reading this site daily I have read many stories about boxers with heart ailments and the first sign of trouble is collapsing. I don't think there was anything else you could have done. Don't beat yourself up thinking you did something wrong. It's so hard losing a pet and 100xs harder when it's your best friend. Nothing I can say can ease your pain but just know everyone here loves their babies like you do and we send you our deepest sympathies!
colormecody
Boxer Pal
I am with you..
I lost my boxer last year on July 7. She had cancer and she was only 8. It started with a bump on her back. She would also fall and was unable to get up, I had to carry her out to the yard and back in. Unfortunately, I was faced with putting her down. I kept her as long as I could, but she was so miserable I couldn't stand it anymore. It was the hardest thing I have ever done. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this terrible time. By the way, I have nor gotten another Boxer because I am so afraid of this disease, but I dearly miss the breed. God Bless.
I lost my boxer last year on July 7. She had cancer and she was only 8. It started with a bump on her back. She would also fall and was unable to get up, I had to carry her out to the yard and back in. Unfortunately, I was faced with putting her down. I kept her as long as I could, but she was so miserable I couldn't stand it anymore. It was the hardest thing I have ever done. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this terrible time. By the way, I have nor gotten another Boxer because I am so afraid of this disease, but I dearly miss the breed. God Bless.
I am so sorry to hear about Punches!
I lost my "baby" Cody Monday night 8/30/04, he was 11 years old. We found out about 2 weeks ago that he had either a tumor on his spinal cord or a disc problem which caused him to fall and stagger. Then Saturday he started walking in circles, falling etc. Monday night he had what I would describe as the same thing Punches went through, the panting and kicking. His eyed rolled back in his head. I think they were seziures. The vet had warned me that this was possible. After the second one he was out of it. We rushed him to the vet so he wouldn't be in anymore pain.
I am sorry I can't help you deal with this as I can't even do it for myself. I just keep telling myself that Cody is in a better place and no longer in pain. Seeing him the way he had been the past 1 1/2 months was sad because he wasn't his normal bouncy self. I do know exactly what you are feeling but I don't have any words to make it better.
We got another boxer 5 months ago because we knew Cody was getting old. Sometimes I wish I wouldn't have gotten another one because I don't want to have to go through this pain again. But when I get home and see him, it makes me feel so good. I also know that Cody wouldn't want me to be sad.
I am not suggesting that getting another dog is a cure all, but when I am down, Duke is there to bring me up.
Feel free to pm me anytime.
Take Care,
Sarah, Cody and Duke
I lost my "baby" Cody Monday night 8/30/04, he was 11 years old. We found out about 2 weeks ago that he had either a tumor on his spinal cord or a disc problem which caused him to fall and stagger. Then Saturday he started walking in circles, falling etc. Monday night he had what I would describe as the same thing Punches went through, the panting and kicking. His eyed rolled back in his head. I think they were seziures. The vet had warned me that this was possible. After the second one he was out of it. We rushed him to the vet so he wouldn't be in anymore pain.
I am sorry I can't help you deal with this as I can't even do it for myself. I just keep telling myself that Cody is in a better place and no longer in pain. Seeing him the way he had been the past 1 1/2 months was sad because he wasn't his normal bouncy self. I do know exactly what you are feeling but I don't have any words to make it better.
We got another boxer 5 months ago because we knew Cody was getting old. Sometimes I wish I wouldn't have gotten another one because I don't want to have to go through this pain again. But when I get home and see him, it makes me feel so good. I also know that Cody wouldn't want me to be sad.
I am not suggesting that getting another dog is a cure all, but when I am down, Duke is there to bring me up.
Feel free to pm me anytime.
Take Care,
Sarah, Cody and Duke
snowicki
Boxer Booster
I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad that Punches was able to stay with a wonderful person as yourselft for the 3 1/2 years that she had left. It is so difficult when it all happens so fast, please don't blame yourself. I don't think that there is anything else that you could have done, you showed her the love and compasion that every friend deserves.
thanks everyone
I was surprised to check this site again to see all the posts. Boxers are a very special breed and it took Punches to find that out. I still have moments of losing it, but I know that if I didn't feel this way, I would not have loved her so much. I don't blame myself other than asking why so young? I probably will get another some day..not to replace but to enjoy again their unique personality. My 3 years with her was so fun I'd risk it again to have another.
I was surprised to check this site again to see all the posts. Boxers are a very special breed and it took Punches to find that out. I still have moments of losing it, but I know that if I didn't feel this way, I would not have loved her so much. I don't blame myself other than asking why so young? I probably will get another some day..not to replace but to enjoy again their unique personality. My 3 years with her was so fun I'd risk it again to have another.
Mama_Zookeeper
Boxer Insane
I am so very sorry about the loss of your father and your pup! I know you will never forget Punches, but opening your heart to a new boxer won't replace her...it will help you heal. I am sure Punches would want for your to be happy.
Godspeed Punches
Welcome to BW...I hope you enjoy this web site as much as I do!
Godspeed Punches
Welcome to BW...I hope you enjoy this web site as much as I do!
So Sorry
Hello,
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you. I own two male boxers. One is five and the other three. I cant even imagine anything happening to them. I am very sorry about your dads death. I also lost my father last Nov. it almost seems like yesterday. Kylo and Chief (my boxers) definately help me through my sadness. My dad was sick for two years and towards the end he was in a nursing home. It was hard visiting everyday but, I did. I would never cry in front of him but, when I got home I would basically cry myself to sleep. Kylo and Chief stayed by my side and licked my tears almost like they were saying we are sorry that your sad and that your loosing someone so important to you. They sure do make life alittle easier and help through the tough times.
I am very sorry for your loss and I know one day you will get another boxer to love and to love you back.
Take Care - Babyrich
Hello,
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you. I own two male boxers. One is five and the other three. I cant even imagine anything happening to them. I am very sorry about your dads death. I also lost my father last Nov. it almost seems like yesterday. Kylo and Chief (my boxers) definately help me through my sadness. My dad was sick for two years and towards the end he was in a nursing home. It was hard visiting everyday but, I did. I would never cry in front of him but, when I got home I would basically cry myself to sleep. Kylo and Chief stayed by my side and licked my tears almost like they were saying we are sorry that your sad and that your loosing someone so important to you. They sure do make life alittle easier and help through the tough times.
I am very sorry for your loss and I know one day you will get another boxer to love and to love you back.
Take Care - Babyrich
feeling better day by day
I think that I have found some real boxer buddies. The posts are just what the doctor ordered. The loss will always be there, and the memories too. I won't ever replace her, but I know that another will help me over the pain. I have a question....what do I do to avoid losing a boxer so young? She got exercise, ate well, got the best of everything..and it was still not enough. How do I tell the history of a pup? Is it champion bloodlines, or just AKC registration to look for. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for the support again. Greg
I think that I have found some real boxer buddies. The posts are just what the doctor ordered. The loss will always be there, and the memories too. I won't ever replace her, but I know that another will help me over the pain. I have a question....what do I do to avoid losing a boxer so young? She got exercise, ate well, got the best of everything..and it was still not enough. How do I tell the history of a pup? Is it champion bloodlines, or just AKC registration to look for. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for the support again. Greg
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