1) how to show...teaching stance/baiting/techniques/anything and everything to be successful and confident in myself that I`m doing a good job.
Books:
Click To Win by Karen Pryor
Winning with Purebred Dogs by Alvin Grossman
Born to Win by Patricia Trotter
Winning Edge by George Alston
Raising a Champion by Meredith Johns & Carole Richards
Show Me! by D. Caroline Coile
Tricks of the Trade by Pat Hastings
Books I don't have but are probably worthwhile:
New Secrets of Dog Show Handling by Peter Green & Mario Migliorini
Absolute Beginner's Guide to Showing Your Dogs by Cheryl Smith
Simple Guide to Showing Your Dog by Richard Beauchamp
Videos:
Handling I & Handling II by Michael Kemp
Show Dogs by Jeff Brucker
Also invest in a large mirror (I have one that is 24 x 36 and really it could be a little bigger) so that you can see how the dog is stacked from the judge's point of view, and a video camera so you can see how the dog moves, and how *you* are doing with handling, stacking, gaiting, etc.
2) a training manual that is good for older dogs. Behavioral issues is a plus and how to correct...also fun and games section would be a plus.
Same ones as for puppies, really.
Culture Clash by Jean Donaldson is IMO a must-have for any dog owner.
Training:
Click for Joy by Melissa Alexander
Clicking With Your Dog by Peggy Tilman
The Power of Positive Dog Training by Pat Miller
Clicker Training for Obedience by Morgan Spector
Clicker Training for Dogs by Karen Pryor
A Clicker Cookbook by Shirley Chong
Just Plain Clicker Sense by Shirley Chong
Behavior:
Don't Shoot the Dog by Karen Pryor
The Other End of the Leash by Patricia McConnell
Bones Would Rain From The Sky by Suzanne Clothier
Calming Signals by Turid Rugaas
The Rosetta Bone by Cheryl Smith
Some newly-published titles that I haven't read yet but sound intriguing:
How to Behave So Your Dog Behaves by Sophia Yin
Coaching People to Train Their Dogs by Terry Ryan
Parenting Your Dog by Trish King
Positive Perspectives: Love Your Dog, Train Your Dog by Pat Miller