just a phase ? ... I hope

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ThorJKD

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Thor is 16 months old. About 6 months ago he started acting skiddish around new people. the strange thing is every time someone comes in the house or shop ( I bring him with me to work alot ) ... he acts the same way even if its someone he knows. If for instance Bill comes by, after a while thor settles down. then if Bill were to leave for an hour and come back the whole process would start over again. its really the fact that he seems to forget people he knows worrys me. Is this normal? is it a phase ?

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gmacleod

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Well, it may not really just be a phase now. I would think it's possible that you can improve matters with training and socialisation, but he may not ever really be a confident and outgoing dog.

Thing is, at around the 6-12 month mark, all pups go through a stage known as the second fear imprint - or fear of new situations period. During that time, the dog is likely to become wary or even outright fearful of new situations, people, objects, etc. If you think about it from an evolutionary context, this is about the age where he'd be introduced by his pack to things like hunting and other "responsible" duties or activities. And for that, he needs to know what to be afraid of! And of course, those evolutionary processes and changes don't disappear just because we're keeping dogs now as pets.

Anyway, the way to manage that phase is by showing the dog - through your own confident and nonchalent attitude toward things - that there is no need for him to be frightened of it. A common mistake we people make is to pay attention to the cowering dog - either by trying to reassure him, or worse, by encouraging or forcing him to face the scary thing. Well, that of course makes matters worse - it confirms to the dog that there is something to be afraid of. There must be, if the human is making a fuss too. And so - if that's the response he gets, he will be forever fearful (which sometimes takes the form of fear aggression, btw). The dog who's shown by his leader that there's nothing whatever to fear - because the human is outgoing and friendly and not the least bit concerned by the new person/thing/situation and allowed to come out his shell in his own time - will learn that there was no need to be afraid. And once the fear imprint period is over, a confident and outgoing dog should result.

Your guy, of course, should be over the fear imprint stage. But it sounds as though he may have missed learning not to fear. Taking a lead now and showing him via your own confident attitude and NO attention to his fear can still help a lot though. You might also consider consulting a behaviourist (not a trainer) for some help in adjusting his outlook. Someone appropriately qualified in behavioural management can really make a difference - not least because they can work with you to achieve a result.

There is a sticky thread at the top of this forum entitled "Aggression Issues". I know it's not aggression you're asking about - but the point is that the thread contains some excellent links. Amongst those (first post) are a couple of links that can help you to locate and contact a behaviourist.
 

huhmama

Boxer Pal
so how do you show the dog that the human is okay? I'm asking this because Zeus is skittish at first around new people but quickly warms to them. He is also hesitant and at times aggressive towards new dogs coming into our house and even barked at one as we drove by it. I know he needs more socialization with new dogs but I'm not quite sure how to reassure him that they are nice without reinforcing his cowarding or aggression.
 

ELubas

Boxer Insane
As gmacleod said you show them by your own actions. You greet the person, smile, shake hands all the while ignoring your cowering little boy. You say he warms up so when he does slip that person a great treat to give to him. It will take time but hopefuly he will eventually gain confidence. I think working with a behavorist with a dog like this would be great. I did with my last scardey cat girl and by the time she was three she a very confident girl. As for barking at dogs he sees from the car that is not at all unusual nor is it unusual for him to take exception to strange dogs coming into his territory (the house) These are all behaviors that a behavorist can work with you on. Good luck!
 
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