Is a Boxer right for my family?

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Jiffer

Boxer Booster
Hi guys,

My husband and I are seriously considering getting a Boxer and I'd like your input as to whether this is a good choice for us. We have 2 kids, 7 & 9, a female cat and an aging female Chow (11 yrs). We thought it might be nice to have a "transition" pet before the Chow passes on. Both cat and dog are indoor pets, as would the Boxer be. We have a fairly large home with a descent size backyard. The kids and I are home quite a lot because we homeschool.

The reason I am drawn to the boxer is because of its playful temperment. However, I have had visions of coming home to my leather couch being torn to shreds and the Boxer trying to eat the cat! Also, I wonder how our current dog would take to a new dog, Boxer or otherwise. She is pretty domineering to our cat (chases her out of the kitchen all the time, which cracks me up) and I'm guessing she would definitely try to dominate the new dog. This wouldn't necessarily be a bad thing since it is quite normal for one dog to dominate the other, but I guess I worry they may not get along at all if the Boxer is equally domineering.

Also, would you recommend a male or female in this case? I'm guessing a male may get along better with my female Chow. However, my husband leans toward female because female animals are generally less hyper, but I don't know if that's true with Boxers. I read some of the posts on male and female Boxers and it looks like it really just depends on the specific dog, not the sex. However, does anyone know if one sex is "typically" more hyper than the other?

I don't know if we'll end up with a puppy or possibly a young adult from an animal rescue (which opens up a whole new can of worms!). Either way, I am prepared to work with him or her on obedience training, etc. We used to have a rottweiler/shepherd mix, so we are experienced in big silly dogs who like to play all the time, however, that was an outdoor dog. I can't even imagine having a dog like that inside my house most of the time. Chows are so mellow and come pre-potty trained!

So, that's pretty much it. I know it was a lot! Sorry! Just looking for input before making a big decision like this.

Thanks,

Jen
 

MyGirlHeidi

Completely Boxer Crazy
I am no expert but I can tell you that we have a 4 year old female boxer. We brought her into our home at 2 years and she adjusted so well to our family. We have 2 children who were 7 and 6 at the time. She loves them to death..they can do anything to her and she will just sit there with those big eyes looking at them. They truly have wonderful temperments.

As far as coming home to your couch torn to shreds..you will have to crate train your new puppy. Since you are in and out all day it shouldn't be a problem leaving the pup in its crate for a time. If your cat has its claws the puppy will soon realize he's up against and although the pup may chase the cat, he will learn his boundaries. That's how our boxer is anyway. She was very curious about the cats but they learned to coexist!

From my readings the best match for your female Chow would be a male boxer. I know our female does not mind males at all but does get a different attitude when it comes to females. She wants to be the queen!

That's about the best I can do for you..I'm sure others will have more info for you. I can say that for the 2 years we have Heidi she has been the best dog and companion for our family. Something about a boxer dog is so unique. They are one of a kind and will make you and your family feel loved plus, they are complete nuts and do some of the craziest-funniest things!

Best of luck in your decision! :)
 

megan313

Boxer Booster
just had to comment...my female is WAY more hyper than my male. But its an idividual dog issue. It would be like saying white dogs are more hyper than brown dogs.
 

tyson&ali

Boxer Booster
I am drawn to the boxer is because of its playful temperment.
This is so very true of almost ALL boxers!!
However, I have had visions of coming home to my leather couch being torn to shreds and the Boxer trying to eat the cat!
I don't think a boxer will eat a cat, maybe sniff it to death, but my babies just don't understand why they can't sit on the couch and any chance they get up they go evilicon
I'm guessing she would definitely try to dominate the new dog.
Both my babies are very submissive but I think that just depends on the dog however I have yet to meet a domineering boxer!


However, my husband leans toward female because female animals are generally less hyper, but I don't know if that's true with Boxers.
My female is way more hyper than my male however if you don't give them enough attention and exercise it won't matter they will drive you crazy until you pay attnetion!!!:LOL:Boxers are naturally active dogs but I suppose the kids will be plenty of company! I don't have any skin kids but my fur kids love other peoples skin kids!

I don't know if we'll end up with a puppy or possibly a young adult from an animal rescue
Tyson is a rescue and was easier in the potty training department but everything else has been a challenge! Our puppy has been a challenge in the potty training department but everything else has been easy so take your pick!!! I think it is wonderful to rescue though and plenty of boxers need a loving home like you have!
It sounds like you are a great family for a boxer!! good luck!!! Tyson and Ali's mom!!
 

Bar B

Boxer Booster
IF:
you like a dog that is relatively a groom free dog, one that is goofy but yet CAN be protective, one that is just as content to be a couch potatoe versus playing tag football in the yard, one that may have smelly gas from time to time, one that loves to give affectionate face washes, AND if you promise to spend quality time with it AND allow it to be a FULL member of your family...then yes you may be happy with a Boxer

HOWEVER, you will have to teach it right from wrong, you will have to teach it the word "NO, Stay, Not yours, and things of that nature" plus you will also have to care for it life long.

I for one can highly recommend the Boxer BUT if you are not willing to put forth the effort in training and not willing to put the time in...then no dog I can recommend. They are sooooo much like children it is unbelievable but they can have their moments of terrible two`s!
 

BooBoo & Riley

Completely Boxer Crazy
I'd say go for a male boxer... find a good breeder and prepare to do a temperment test on the puppy/litter to find a mellow guy... not shy or domineering.
 

Cami

Boxer Insane
Out of all of the other Boxers that I know who I have spent much time with my girl is the only female. She is absolutely 100% more independent, hyper, stubborn, active (on the go all the time), happy, exuberant, playful etc.....than her male counterparts.

Males IMO, are more cuddle bugs, lovey-dovey types than females. Not all, I know but the ones that I am around. My girl needs CONSTANT stimulation. She doesn't ever just sit for the sake of sitting. She is either on the go at full speed or sleeping like a rock. That being said she also was easier to potty train than the males. She seems eager to learn and does so quicker than her male buddies. But her stubborness does try ones nerves on occasion. My best friends male is just over 2 and has always been content to lay on the couch and watch the world go by. My girl at almost 19 months wouldn't think of laying on the couch and let the world just pass her by. She has to be right in the middle of whatever is happening in the house, be it her own invention of some game, playing hide-n-seek with the cat or doing the nearly constant boxer burns over everything.

She gets along with both sexes equally on her part, but so far all females have been a little stand-offish towards her. Males have never reacted this way towards her. In your case with a female already in the house I would suggest a male.

My cat and dog are only 2 weeks apart in age and the dog was here only 6 days without the cat. They more than tolerate each other and play all the time but don't sleep together as best buds just yet.

Boxers are a wonderful breed but they aren't for everyone. The time you save in grooming vs. other breeds will be used up plus some in trying to deplete the energy they have in abundance. A tired Boxer is a beautiful thing!!! When you are too tired to give them some exercise, it still has to be done or else they will keep you awake most of the night......(at least at my house).

Lot's of playtime in the yard, long walks, training etc are very time consuming and they need it daily. If you are up for all that it entails then go for it! You will love the breed. And of course be repaid in spades from that smooshy face.
 

frankies_mom

Boxer Booster
First of all...what I have to say is, I appreciate the fact that you asked first BEFORE getting involved, and THEN deciding wheather or not it was right. Kudos to you for that .....(((((HUGS))))))

Second, I have a mini schnauzer, who was three when we brought Frank in the house, plus I have a 7 yr old skinkid. Frank fit right into our family, he gets along great with my schnauzer and skinkid, and they all act like brothers. !! lol They wrestle, and play around. I have a leather couch, and Frank snuggles with mommy all the time..no worries, leather is tougher than you think. ;) Here is a website that might help you out a little bit. You probably already know all this stuff, sounds like you did the research, but I found this right after I got Frank, (and this site too, which is my FAVORITE site) it helped me understand him more.
http://choctawridgestudio.com/Facts About Boxers.htm

Good luck hun, and happy boxer hunting (if you find its right for you)

And p.s, you came to the RIGHT place....:D
 
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