Amy, I have read this whole thread and first I have to tellyou I am so sorry about your Lily. I can not even begin to imagine what you must feel. I know it has been awhile, but miracles do happen. Did you ever think to post a picture of Lilly (even though I am sure she would've grown a lot- she probably has the same overall appearance). Anyway, because boxer world reaches so many people maybe you could start a new thread with the details of the story and refer people to your photo gallery. You said the people who had her called her by her name, you may still be able to find her. She may have even ended up at a shelter/ or may end up there one day under her correct name, if you had a pic up then people would know what to look for. Would you atleast describe her . . . that way every time I come across a Lily (or anyone else for that matter) I won't be thinking it may be her and should i e-mail you and get your hopes up when the dog isn't even the right color.
Well anyway GOOD LUCK I will keep my eye out!!!