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Hi Jenn,
She's right, crating does not mean that you will get exempted from adoption. I help with FL Boxer Rescue & have only told a few people "no" that crate. I found that they were excessive--they would crate for 8-9 straight hours everyday and then everytime they left the house inthe evening. I didn't think that people that were not home more often really needed another dog.
An alternative to crating as your dog gets older and less destructive may be to confine them to a particular room or limit their access to certain rooms inth e house. Our two dogs will get on the furniture if we let them roam while we are out--this is a no-no at our home. So when noone is occupying our guest room, we put on a set of "dog sheets" and lock them in their room until lunch time when we come home. This works well b/c we can ensure that they will not get into anything & they can lounge & look outside without destroying anything. Plus, they now LOVE the routine and will run inside in the AM and jump onto "their" bed, waiting for us to pet them good bye and lock them in.
Others like babygating them in the kitchen with a bed & bone. Others have large utility rooms and their dogs go there and hang out while they are away. However, if the room is too tiny or dark or stuffy, they will rebel, like one dog we know who ate through the sheet rock of the closet-like tomb he was kept in for 9 straight hours every day. Others do well with doggie doors if you must be gone all day.
If you are coming home for lunch and walking them and loving on them, I don't see where you would be considered a "bad parent".