crazy when people come over

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jjones

Boxer Pal
we have an adorable 1 and a half year old. She is fine when we are there ourselves, but goes abosolutely crazy when we have visitors-it is horrible-right now anytime we have people over we place her leash on-and she won't calm down. We just started have a private trainer since group classes did absolutely nothing-she can't transfer what she learns in class and what we practice all week to what happens when peopl come over-any suggestions???!!! HELP!!!
Last Time we tried to place her in her crate when we had guests she snapped at my husband
 

JazznChase

Boxer Insane
Mine go crazy too! When people come over I hold their collars in a sit/stay position. When they come in I tell them to walk right by them and ignore them for like 5 minutes. By the time I let them go-they aren't as HYPER. But once they settle down then the people can pet them. It is hard. And their might be an easier way. But I know exactly what you are talking about!
 

Alisha Mobley

Boxer Insane
Originally posted by jjones
we have an adorable 1 and a half year old. She is fine when we are there ourselves, but goes abosolutely crazy when we have visitors-it is horrible-right now anytime we have people over we place her leash on-and she won't calm down.

Train the down command and place her in a down with the leash on her. Downing a dog causes their heart rate to slow, relaxes the dog and results in a calmer dog. Have her to hold the down until she looks completely relaxed then allow her to get up keeping the leash on her. Don't overly praise her because this will only excite her. After she is walking around calmly you can try and remove the leash. Sometimes just knowing they have their leash on will calm them but placing them in a down is good practice.

Originally posted by jjones

We just started have a private trainer since group classes did absolutely nothing-she can't transfer what she learns in class and what we practice all week to what happens when peopl come over-any suggestions???!!! HELP!!!

I prefer group classes since I feel the dog needs to learn w/ distractions. If she is doing good at home alone then I really don't see what a private trainer is going to do to help. It really sounds like she needs the practice w/ the distractions of other dogs. When you practice on your own don't limit her to the yard or house. Take her out in public palces. A varietly of environments when training is best. She will soon learn to ignore the distractions and listen to her commands. Boxers are very curious and can bore easily. Keep her training sessions short but frequent. Practice one or maybe two commands at a time. You want her and you to be able to give/obey the commands so well you/her can do it in your sleep. Lavish her w/ praise for obeying.

Originally posted by jjones

Last Time we tried to place her in her crate when we had guests she snapped at my husband

This sounds like she was showing her dominant side. Don't give in and practice placing her in the crate when company is over. When she snaps ignore her. She will quickly learn that snapping gets her no where and no matter how much of a fit she throws if you say she must go in the crate, then it has to be done. Once you get her in there praise her. Leave her in there for at least 2 seconds perferably 4 then get her out and do it again. Mix up the amount of time she is left in each time. If you do exactly 4 seconds each time she will anticipate this and will be ready to run out at exactly 4 seconds (try 4, then maybe 10, then 6, etc). Keep repeating the process until she at least doesn't snap but would be even better if she went in on command (this could take longer than one training session though and the snapping is the big issue at this point).

Hope this helps.:)
 
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hi cola snaps at me constantly whenever i try to discipline her for any thing, whether it be to lay down or sit when guests come over to getting of the furniture. i seriously need help!
 

Alisha Mobley

Boxer Insane
Re: snapping

Originally posted by Cola Champagnes mommy
hi cola snaps at me constantly whenever i try to discipline her for any thing, whether it be to lay down or sit when guests come over to getting of the furniture. i seriously need help!

If she snaps when placed in a sit then ignore the snap and keep re-doing the sit until she doesn't snap...then praise. Do not praise the sit that comes w/ a snap. Whatever command you give, repeat it over and over until it happens w/out a snap. You don't need to be aggressive but don't show any fear or shy away when she snaps. This will make her think snapping is working. You want her to learn no matter what she tries to do it's not going to work. When you give a command the bottom line is it must be obeyed. I stated in another post that dogs will take the path of least resistance. They will soon learn it is easier to obey and good things happen when they "just obey".
 
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hi thanks alisha,
when i went home for lunch, i took her out and of course she began to bite me, (playfully) and i took the advice of the thread on biting and i yelped and she immediately kissed the spot she just bit and began to kiss me on my face and i really hope this works. she never snaps when i put her night night in her crate but on when i scold her on her biting (her little teeth hurt for 8 weeks.) then she becomes more aggressive and now i will continue to yelp. hopefully this will work. thanks for your advice. i love this website!
 
I agree with the training advice but...for a quick fix nothing works like bribery. If you know someone is coming prepare a kong stuffed with peanut butter or buy a rawhide. When the guests come give the treat. By the time the dog is done the excitement has worn off and they act normal.
 
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Eddie's mom

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Hey jjones, it sounds like you have my boxer! Our Eddie was exactly like that. Fine with just us but nuts with people over!! We couldn't do anything to calm him down!! We had to put him in his crate, he also tried to fight us on that. If he snapped I told him NO and BAD very firm and continued to force him into his crate. This went on til he was about 2! After 2 he still would be crazy when company came but all I had to do was get a cheese slice (his favorite) and tell him firmly to go to bed.
Now that he is 5 he is usually crazy, and sniffs the company for the first few minutes then he is fine. If he doesn't settle down I just say "do you want to go to bed" and point to the bedroom and he settles down pretty fast.
Sorry i have no ideas for you, we just waited it out til he matured which is probably not the best way to do it.

P.S If we knew the company was coming we had him already in the crate also
 
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