It is great to hear that I'm not alone...
My boyfriend thought I was losing it when I purchased a couch just for them to sleep on in the addition when they are left alone, but I justified it by making sure it was a hide-a-bed, you know, for company to sleep on when they stay over ;-)
The overflowing basket of toys, the matching blankets in the livingroom, the fact that they are lap dogs (something I never let my other dogs do), the endless photos, and, of course, talking about them constantly... all proof that I am under their spell.
Most of my time is planned around them... my family says it's not normal, but what is normal?
I, too, say that I will never live in a boxer-less home!