I am definetly in the minority on this one. Rocky never sleeps on my bed. When I am not home, the bedroom door is closed so he cannot sleep on the bed. He has his own bed in the living room- and I don't sleep in his bed, so I don't want him in mine. Not to be cruel, I just don't like being smooshed when I am sleeping. I am not a night time cuddler.At first I did not want him on the couch either, but...I gave in to that. He was too persistant and just wants to snuggle. My back was beginning to hurt siiting on the floor with him, so up on the couch he goes. I have also cought him there many mornings!